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Horrible Hagatha
Age: 35    MIL Age: 76

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Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 6-JUN-03
Hagatha has always had issues with the clothes that I buy my daughter.  My daughter is, and has always been, one of the best-dressed children whom I know.  Hagatha's son pays less-than-minimum-wage child support (and is always late), so the clothes are paid for by me.  My daughter is now seven years old and favors skirts.  Hagatha says that I dress her like a whore!  She recently told my daughter that she was not allowed to go to church (she had a modest dress with her) because she looked like a whore!  Insane!!!!!

        Signed - Hagatha Is A "Churchgoer!"?????
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Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 5-JUN-03
Hagatha is NOW saying that my daughter looks too much like her sister (different fathers) to be her son's child.  She feels that he should not have to pay child support for a child who is not even his.  DO THEY REALLY THINK THAT I WOULD TOLERATE THEIR CR@P AND FORCE MY PRECIOUS DAUGHTER TO TOLERATE THEIR CR@P IF HE WAS NOT HER ACTUAL FATHER???????  I WISH!!!!!!!!

        Signed - I Want A Hagatha Voodoo Doll!
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frequent fry her - Hagatha Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 26-APR-03
My XMIL (the horrible Hagatha) had a son who was insane.  Although I felt much sympathy for him (he could not help how he was), I worried about my children around him.  While I was living there (next door - he lived with Hagatha), I was able to protect them.  After I moved out, only my younger daughter was exposed to him (my older is no relation).  Now, this man was extremely violent at times and had made sexual comments about both of my children.  My older was five at that time and my younger was a newborn.  Despite the fact that I had a court order preventing him from being alone with my daughter (after visitation began), it was ignored.  For years, I was afraid for my daughter and could not protect her.  Hagatha would always say, "He would never hurt a she-child."  But, he did end up hurting a "she-woman" and went to prison for it to await trial.  Hagatha wanted him OUT.  But, he died last summer, and now is in a better place, where he cannot hurt himself or others.

        Signed - A SHE-CHILD???????

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frequent fry her - Hagatha Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 24-APR-03
Hagatha's son (my ex, she has many) is a convicted felon, and mental illness runs in her family.  Nonetheless, when we were having a custody dispute, she told everyone who would listen that I was unstable, unfit, and mentally ill.  I do not have a history of any mental illness, and it does not run in my family.  I have no criminal record.  And I am a very good mother (as Hagatha often said prior to the dispute).  Afterwards, they laughed about their lies and said, "All is fair in love and war."


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frequent fry her - Hagatha Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 24-APR-03
When I was still living with my ex, my XMIL (still connected by my second-born daughter) snuck one of my ex's many lovers into her house (next door) for some private time.  He had not come home from the bars, and I was worried sick.  But, she effortlessly lied to me when I called her.  When she realized that I had found out, she told her son to hide in her house.  This man was 220 lbs. of muscle, and my pre-pregnancy weight was a mere 100 lbs.  Even 8 months pregnant, I only weighed in the 120's (maybe less after worrying all night and having lost my appetite).  What was I going to do?  Also, I had never been violent towards him (it was the opposite, and she knew it).  Also, please note that my ex and I had a sexual connection that he still talks about, so there was absolutely no need for him to be unfaithful!


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frequent fry her - Hagatha Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 24-APR-03
More about Hagatha:  A child died who was a relative of Hagatha's granddaughter (not mine).  The child was run over by his father accidentally, so it was heartbreaking.  Hagatha loves funerals.  She can socialize!!!!!  She took pictures (that I had sent her) of my daughter (her granddaughter) to the funeral of this little boy, and showed them to everyone.  Unbelievable!!!

        Signed - HELLO!!!!!  NOW IS NOT THE TIME TO SHOW PICTURES!!!!!

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frequent fry her - Hagatha Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha/Posted: 20-MAR-03
THE HAGATHA SAGA CONTINUES.  Hagatha, my EX MIL, is mean to my daughter.  She tells her that she is ugly, stupid, etc.  It depends on her mood.  My little girl is 6, bright, and looks just like the sugar plum fairy on "Barbie And The Nutcracker".  She is precious!!!!!!  But, even if she were not, what kind of a monster says that to her own grandchild?????  A decrepit Hagatha monster, I guess.


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frequent fry her - Hagatha, 1 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha, 1 of 4 needed/Posted: 13-MAR-03
My EX MIL (Hagatha) once said that my daughter looked nothing like her son, so maybe I had been cheating (she used to let him sneak other women into her house, mind you, and she lived NEXT DOOR!!!!!!!!).  BUT, when I left him, she joined up with him to try to take custody of my daughter (who was just a tot).  And, she lied under oath to do it!  She FAILED to take custody from me, but we are stuck with the witch nonetheless.  NOW, WHAT HAPPENED TO THE ISSUE OF THE CHILD NOT BEING HER SON'S????????  But, the saga continues.  My daughter is very beautiful, and she looks like her big sister and mommy, but now HAG says she looks just like her son.  I have been dealing with her BS for seven years now!!!!!  Watch for more Hagatha stories!

        Signed - My Former MIL Is The Worst, and I Am So Happy That I Found This Site So I Can Vent

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frequent fry her - Hagatha, 2 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha, 2 of 4 needed/Posted: 17-MAR-03
My ex-MIL Hagatha likes to take credit for "raising" many of her grandchildren (including mine, who is only with her every other weekend).  My daughter dislikes her, and has since she was a baby, although my daughter is polite to her.  By the way, my daughter's aunt, HAGATHA'S CHILD, NO LESS, told me that my daughter could sense EVIL, and that is why she did not like HAGATHA as a baby.  This old woman had nine children, whom she did not treat well.  She also had a stepson whom she forced to live without his father.  HAGATHA HAD MARRIED A WIDOWER, WHOSE FIRST WIFE HAD BURNED TO DEATH IN FRONT OF THIS CHILD!!!!!!

        Signed - Would You Like An Apple, Dear?????

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frequent fry her - Hagatha, 3 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha, 3 of 4 needed/Posted: 19-MAR-03
My ex MIL is, unfortunately, the grandmother of my second-born child.  I will refer to her as Hagatha for this story.  She is SUCH a witch.  She even looks like one.  One of her more minor insults is that she says that I dress my daughter in RAGS, and that my daughter has never had any nice clothes.  Now, I love to shop, and my children have always been dressed in the finest clothes.  I allow the second-born to wear her fine clothes to Hagata's filthy house.  At one time (when I was a single mom) Hagatha would destroy my second-born's precious little outfits that she hated, and described as those "THICK-MATERIALED OUTFITS"!!!!  Then, I married, and just constantly replaced outfits until she quit.  What is funny is that this woman lives in poverty, and shops ONLY at thrift stores, and she always buys something with a rip or stain.  This, and many other incidents, unrelated to clothes, have made me believe that she is insane.

        Signed - SURVIVOR OF HE!!

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frequent fry her - Hagatha, 4 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM - Hagatha, 4 of 4 needed/Posted: 20-MAR-03
Another Hagatha story.  When I became pregnant with Hagatha's grandchild, I was 27 years old, a size three, 5'3" and 100 lbs.  I carried small, as I had with my first child.  The day after I gave birth, Hagatha had company.  I had never met these people before.  She called me over.  SHE LIVED NEXT DOOR!!!!!!!!!!  She then introduced me and said, "You still look fat."  HELLO!!!!!!!!  I HAD A BABY YESTERDAY!!!!!  Three months later I was back down to a size three, and I looked fit.  DID I MENTION THAT THIS WOMAN IS BIG?????????  SHE HAS BEEN ALL HER LIFE.

        Signed - I Gave Birth Yesterday!!!!!!!!  What is Your Excuse????????

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