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Mother-In-Law Mall
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Mother-In-Law Stories
Frequent Fry HerTM
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topo
Age: 20 MIL Age: 56
Hello
I'm glad to meet other women who share the
same problems...I'm not alone.
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Frequent
Fry Her TM
- Topo, 1 of 4 needed /Posted: 23-DEC-04
DH and I decided not to let MIL see DS anymore when
she said that she had a favorite GS, and that she "can't help
it". He was the first-born grandson. She said that
she didn't love DS as much because she didn't know him. So,
what about BIL's other child? She obviously didn't tell BIL
that she only really likes one of his kids. Not only that, but
she admitted that she and FIL would fight because she favored BIL
and said that she got along with him better. FIL admitted to
this, and said that he had to coach her on how to treat both DH and
BIL. He suggested that we "coach" her on how to treat
DS, and how to love him and treat them the same. NO WAY!!
I'm NOT coaching her!
Signed - NOT Coaching Her!
( I
want my own Frequent
Fry Her TM
Page )
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Frequent
Fry Her TM
- Topo, 2 of 4 needed /Posted: 24-DEC-04
For the past two days, DH has been fighting with BIL.
We live next door, and share the last half of the driveway, which
isn't paved. Well, lately, BIL has been driving onto our lawn
to turn around, but he KNOWS how to turn around on the driveway, and
knows how to back up the whole way. So, DH put up some sort
of fence, and BIL was so mad. He left a message on the answering
machine. He also has been (for the past few days) backing up
the car and revving it up to mess up the driveway, I'm guessing.
He is getting very childish. We are VERY ready to move.
Also, FIL is being a pain lately, as well, and won't leave us alone.
He's been checking our mail (I know for a fact). BIL also does,
too. We've caught him, and now our mailbox cover is broken.
Sometimes, our mail is opened, too. DH is a Jr. but he has his
own freakin' address and stuff.
Signed - Mad Topo
( I
want my own Frequent
Fry Her TM
Page )
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Frequent
Fry Her TM
- Topo, 3 of 4 needed/Posted: 31-DEC-04
DH told MIL that she can't see the baby anymore, but
she can still call, I guess, and talk to him (NOT ME!). She
did call once in a while, and tried to give him sob stories.
She said that she was kicked out of her place, and that her BF broke
up with her. She went to the hospital because of high blood
pressure. Whatever. She then asked if she could come over.
She now visits BIL and SIL every other week in the middle of the week.
She's over there right now. Every time she would call, she'd
ask to come over. Ummm, NO. Obviously, she should know
that by now, since she keeps asking why. WELLLLL. The
week before, when DH was at work, she knocked on MY door at 9am!!!!
She had her camera in hand, and asked if she could come in.
Luckily, I got to the door in time, because she was opening it!
I told her, "DH's not home," instead of having to say, "No,
you're not allowed." Here is how our conversation went!
MIL: I know he's not home. He said that I could come over.
Me: Well, I'm not dressed, anyway.
MIL: Oh, I don't care. I just want to come in and get
a couple of pictures of the baby.
Me: Sorry, you're not allowed in. DH told you that you
could only call.
MIL: What did I do to you?! I don't understand!
Me: You have favorites and my family doesn't.
MIL: I don't even REMEMBER saying that I had a favorite!
Me: We all heard you.
MIL: Everyone has favorites! He was the first born grandson.
You just wait until you have another baby. You'll have a favorite!
Me: I don't have favorites. My mom doesn't have favorites,
etc.
MIL: DS's grandmother (who just passed away) had favorites (I
know she didn't - she never even liked MIL).
Me: *Shrug* You can't come in.
MIL: You know that I went to the hospital because of this.
I was in there for two days because I was depressed and stuff.
Me: Well, I can't help you.
MIL: I don't even have favorites!!
Me: You just said you did!
Then, she went on and started to say something mean, and I said, "WHATEVER,"
and slammed the door. I know that this may seem mean, but she's
caused so much trouble, and I can't deal with her. I called
DH, and he called MIL. He told her to never come over, and never
to call again, since she had done this. So, she told him that
she's going to give up. Didn't she do this before? She
had also given everyone our mailing address, so we were getting things
from people whom we didn't even know - just people whom she knows.
She also gave out our number and had people call us. We changed
our number. Such a pain. I don't understand why she says
something and then denies it. I wonder what she'll do this week
while she's over. As for FIL, he doesn't really come over/call
as much anymore. I think he's mad, since we don't talk or see
MIL. He didn't even give DH his first Father's Day card.
Signed - He Told Her To
Never Come Over
( I
want my own Frequent
Fry Her TM
Page )
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Frequent
Fry Her TM
- Topo, 4 of 4 needed/Posted: 1-JAN-05
Worst gift: Last Xmas
MIL gave DH and me, as well as BIL and SIL, one knife each. You could
tell that it came from a set, but she was cheap enough to only give
us one. I told DH that she was trying to hint something. HA! For
my baby shower she got me old and used stuff. I don't mind this stuff,
but I wish that she didn't give it to me as a baby shower gift. This
was all that she got me. You may think that she doesn't have money,
but she does. She has a winter home and vacations a lot, and she
has a lot of cars, etc.
Signed - She Does Have
Money
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want my own Frequent
Fry Her TM
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