Frequent
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Age: 24 MIL Age: 51
MIL wants to marry her son . . . YUCK!!
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731/Posted: 27-OCT-06
MIL is at it again!! I'm starting to think
that she is in love with her son. She behaves towards him in
a way that is disturbing. One weekend they took the babies for
a few hours. She asked me what we were doing that night.
I told her that it was a date night. She said, "Oh, I remember
when DH and I used to go on dates." EWWW!! When he
was younger, they went to the park, museums, shopping, etc.
You know, mother-son bonding. Well, she calls it "dates".
DH hates it when she calls it that, but she still says it. Also,
one time DH and I were in her kitchen getting something to drink and
he kissed me. She came around the corner and said, "Stop
it, you're making me jealous." Yuck! Every time we
are holding hands, kissing, or being sweet to each other she has to
say something that is very disturbing. It gets on my nerves.
Whenever we are close and talking to each other, she leans in and
asks what we are saying! She also loves to stare at DH all the
time, especially when we are together. Then, when she is around
him, she always tries to hold his hand and act like I do with him.
I feel like she is competing with me for DH's attention. It's
so sad when mothers cannot let go of their children and realize that
they are not married to their DS!!!
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731/Posted: 25-OCT-06
MIL is so crazy!! One night she called
DH and me at 4 am because she had a dream that I was mistreating my
children, and she grilled DH about it. She kept him on the phone
for an hour, asking him about my parental skills. Who calls
at 4 am???? I'm a great mother, BTW. What is her problem??
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731/Posted: 25-OCT-06
MIL had the nerve to tell me, on the day that
I gave birth to my twins (boy/girl), that I should get used to the
fact that my DD will become pregnant at a young age and cause me nothing
but trouble, and my son will get married and forget about me.
The nerve! Her DD got pregnant at 17 and ran off to be with
the father of the baby. She came back home a few years ago,
when her BF left her and she was pregnant again. And she swears
that DH has abandoned her in some way. We live close to them
and he sees and talks to them all the time. She was lucky that
I was out of it due to the meds, because I would have ripped her a
new one!
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731, 1 of 4 needed/Posted:
14-OCT-06
My MIL is a pain in my @ss and SIL is no different. She copies
everything that I do!! At first I thought it was flattering,
but now it's creepy. Here are a few things that she has done
to look and be like me. I have always dyed my hair red.
Well, she went and dyed her hair red. She even asked me what
color I used! I didn't tell her and she bought the one that
she thought I chose. She asks me what mousse I use in my hair
because she wants hair like mine. It was ok at first, but now
it's annoying being asked over and over about my hair. Every
time I do something to it, she goes and does it. I got really
cute slippers that look like sandals, and the next day she went and
bought some and kept telling me about it, and how much better hers
are. We were shopping together and I saw a jacket that I loved
and wanted. She wanted the same jacket. Even though, earlier,
she saw the jacket and said that she did not like it. So annoying.
She only likes clothes if I like them. I love pink and have
a lot of pink things. She hated pink, but, you guessed it, now
she says she loves it. She buys everything pink, like me.
I have always wanted a particular type of dog, and now she says that
she wants one! I am a purse freak and now so is she. She
never even owned a purse until she knew that I love purses.
I know these things seem trivial, but imagine it in your face EVERY
DAY!! Imagine everything you do being copied. I like my
individual style and being me. I don't like it when someone
tries to copy that and become me. Thank you for letting me vent!!
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731, 2 of 4 needed/Posted:
15-OCT-06
My MIL is starting to get very controlling about
my children. Today she said that I am not to have any more children.
Two is enough. She said that she does not know if she can love
another baby as much as she loves my twins. Uh, excuse me??
Isn't it DH's and my choice to have as many children as we want??
She asked me if DH and I were going to have any more children, and
I said that we have not decided yet. The nerve to tell me that
I cannot have any more children. I told her I may have one or
two more, and she said that she will talk to DH about "correcting"
that. She gets on my nerves sometimes!! I feel like having
another just to piss her off. Haha!!
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731, 3 of 4 needed/Posted:
21-OCT-06
MIL told me that I should feed my children cereal
in their formula. That would not be a problem, except they are
2 months old! They were born prematurely, as well. So
we are not going to even consider cereal until at least 4 months.
But, she was so insistent on them having cereal. She even demanded
it! She knew that we were against it, so she dropped it.
A few days ago I found out that she has been feeding them cereal!!!
What a witch!! She said that our doctor does not know what he
is saying, and since she fed her daughter formula at 2 months, my
kids should, too. First off, her DD was a full term baby and
weighed 10 lbs. She told me that she wants big grandbabies,
like her DD. By the way, SIL weighs nearly 400 lbs. Ummm,
I don't think so!!! So, now I am very angry at her and DH will
talk to her about it. She does not seem to listen to me when
I talk to her, especially when I tell her . . .
Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- twinmommy731, 4 of 4 needed/Posted:
25-OCT-06
After meeting me for the first time, DH asked
his DM what she thought of me. She told him that once he's done
slumming, he should let her know because she has a girl who is perfect
for him. I'm glad I wasn't there, because I think I would have
decked her!!
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