My ex-MIL hated me so much, that
when her daughter was getting married, she refused to allow me
to attend the rehearsal dinner! Never mind that she didn't
throw it, she made sure that I was kept away! I might also
add that her baby boy (my husband at the time) was one of the
ushers, and WAS included in the rehearsal dinner! Last I
checked, this was supposed to include SPOUSES of wedding party
members, as well! I'm just glad to be rid of this loser
and his friggin' family!
Signed - Glad To Be
Rid Of Her
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28-JUL-03
Brother-In-Law without children. My fiancé
and I had arranged for FBIL to watch our daughter. He insisted
on putting her to sleep on her belly. I had told him several
times that she was to sleep on her back because the risk of SIDS
was greater when babies are put to sleep on their bellies.
He even went as far as to argue with me about it. He said
that she slept longer on her stomach. I told him that I would
rather she only nap for an hour on her back and wake up, rather
that sleep longer and not wake up. He still kept doing it.
So, I finally told him to put her on her side, since it was a compromise,
even though her doctor said that back sleeping was what we should
do. What was even funnier was that my fiancé had told
his mother that his brother had to stop putting her to sleep on
her stomach and his mother agreed with him. During my argument
with his brother, he told me that their mother puts her to sleep
on her belly too.
Signed - Annoyed
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the poster's request, no responses collected.
When I met my girlfriend
(now my wife) back in 1992, my girlfriend got into an argument with
her mother (now my mother-in-law). Her mother took away my
girlfriend's asthma inhalers This is her own daughter that
she did this to.
Signed - Her Own Daughter
RESPONSE: Her Own Daughter
Scary. Do you still speak to this dreadful woman?
RESPONSE: Her Own Daughter
Your GF should have had her mother charged with attempted murder,
because that is exactly what it was.
RESPONSE: Her Own Daughter
Of course it was her own daughter whom she did this to. Anybody
else who was not related would have punched her on the nose, taken
the inhaler back, and broken off all contact with her.
RESPONSE: Her Own Daughter
I am a registered nurse, and my mother has asthma. What your MIL
did was an extremely evil act. An exacerbation of asthma can be
very life threatening or fatal. Set up boundaries with your MIL
to get strict psychotherapy, and I do mean intense counseling, along
with psychiatric medication, in order to see your wife. Make sure
each visit is supervised. If you have children, please don't ever
leave them alone with her!
When my DD was a baby,
I was a dutiful DIL and took her to see MIL and SIL. They
both smoke like chimneys and drink like fishes. They thought
nothing of trying to hold a baby with a cigarette hanging out of
their mouths! After each visit, my DD would be sick for days,
and we would have to take her to the doctor's office. Each
time, the Dr. told us that it was because of the smoke. So,
my DH and I decided that if they wanted to see the baby, they would
need to come to our house, and they could step outside to smoke
if they wanted to. My DH and I sat down with them and explained
why we had come to this decision. My DD is now 7 years old.
Guess how many times MIL and SIL have been to see her? Four.
Yep, four times in seven years. Yet, they snarl at me for
keeping their dear granddaughter/niece from them!
Signed - MIL Is A Self
Absorbed Old Bat!
RESPONSE: MIL Is A Self Absorbed Old Bat!
OK, they are nutty and terrible, but YOU should be ashamed! How
many times did you, after KNOWING what the problem was, risk your
own daughter's life?
RESPONSE: MIL Is A Self Absorbed Old Bat!
And YOU actually took your baby back to see these people MORE THAN
ONCE, after the doctor EXPRESSLY told you what was making her sick?!?
Your ILs might be @sses, but you should be ashamed of yourself.
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