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Mother-In-Law Stories
June 5, 2004
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Frequent
Fry Her TM
- beyond pissed, 1 of 4 needed
/Posted: 5-JUN-04
Well, I, as some others decided to tell my MIL what
I can't stand about her. And, I found that all it did was give
her more ammunition. MIL moved in with us about a month and a half
ago in hopes of landing a better job, etc. Since she has lived
with us, I have come home from work every day and completely flipped
my personality to a ferocious, mean person. The minute I pull up
into my driveway I snarl at the sight of her car parked in front
of my home. And, as she knows, the minute I walk in the front door
and see her standing there waiting to greet me, I flare up and walk
right back out the door. I feel so bad that I just want to knock
her nasty, buck looking, big gapped teeth down her throat. The
problems first began when she decided to try to mother my kids,
one of whom is from a previous marriage. My oldest is almost 6,
and my youngest is 6 months old. Then, she somehow came to the
conclusion that it was her decision to make whether or not my DD
got dessert, what she would drink with her dinner, or whether she
could play outside prior to doing homework (yeah, kindergarten assigns
homework!). We moved into a bigger home, with rays of hope that
we would see less of her, and enjoy our privacy with our children.
Work? NO! I think that I see more of her now! She cries and says,
"I'm lonely," boo hoo! I don't care! I have had it.
DH and I sat down and told her all the things that she did that
pissed us off. She said, "Okay, I'll work on it." THEN,
she started doing it more!! And, ONLY when DH isn't around to see
her do it! And, when I would yell and curse at her, she would act
innocent and say that she was "only trying to help".
I want to take that "only trying to help" and shove it
up her $%*! Every time she does something, like pick up our son,
or answer my daughter (yeah! still!) she looks at me with a distinct
smirk! OOOHHH!!! I could SCREAM!! I will write more later. There
is lots more!!
Signed - Beyond Pissed
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She is really not my
MIL yet, but she might be sooner or later, if I can hang on.
This woman is an ex-army, postal worker. She is very far from
intelligent, and anyone can tell from miles away. Here is
my story: First off, I need to tell you that I am 35 years
old, and have an 11 year old son. DF is 25 and has 3 children
from three women. Yes, he was young and stupid, but he does
pay child support. He is only allowed to see his son from
the last GF he had, who is now 4. He made the choice to have
the first child adopted, because he was still too young and he had
no job. The child's mother was a nut case. Regarding
the second child, the mother told him that if he didn't want to
be in her life, he was not allowed to be in the daughter's life.
Well, he didn't know that he could fight for the right to see her,
so he respected her choice. The third is a wonderful little
boy whose mother is annoying, but we can deal. FMIL is a completely
different story. When DF and I started seeing each other,
I had just gotten out of a 10 year marriage. I was broke,
jobless, and had nowhere to go. His mom asked me if I wanted
to move in with them to get on my feet. I got no unemployment
pay, but kept the home clean to make up for it. We did not
spend any of her money, and DF helped take care of me. I was
job hunting daily, but it is difficult in our area. I finally
got a job, and boy was I happy. Then, she was going to Europe
to visit friends, so I figured that she should meet my family.
While there, she told my mother that her son (DF) is a total moron
and is learning disabled, that I am fat and lazy, that all I do
is eat and sleep, and that my son (my mother's grandson) is annoying
and she can't stand him. In the meantime, she told her about
her own grandson and what a joy he is. This was rather interesting
to hear from my mother. At that point, my mother told me to
be careful, because dumb people are more dangerous than smart people.
She asked whether my DF was mentally handicapped, and if he even
had a driver's license (had I seen it), because she made him sound
like he was a space case. This was his own mother. I
just laughed and dealt with it. Finally, DF decided to get
our own place and move out. DF told her, and she said that,
instead, she would look for a different place to buy for herself,
and we could just stay here and rent from her. That was fine,
since we were pretty settled in. This finally happened about
4 months later. In the meantime, my best friend sent me a
ticket to visit her in the southwest for 2 weeks. While I
was gone, FMIL tried to talk my DF into getting rid of me.
I was too old, I was rude to her friends (she has none), and she
didn't trust me. Finally, when I got back, she moved.
To get a little off the subject, this woman had DF file bankruptcy
at the age of 18, because he had a few bills, and then she bought
him a car that is financed in her name. But, he makes the
payment every month. Anyway, so DF received a rental agreement
with just his name because she says that she doesn't trust me.
I am a very giving person - I don't expect anything in return.
For Mothers Day last year, we got her a few cool gifts that we thought
that she could use. For her birthday and for Valentine's Day
we also got her some things. She did take us shopping for
Valentine's Day, and told us to both pick something out. After
we went to have lunch, she wanted to let us know that we were her
last choice (to go anywhere with), but everyone else whom she had
talked to was busy. That was a great feeling, if I might add.
For Christmas, we gave up and didn't get her anything because she
didn't even want to be around when the kids opened their gifts from
us. She got them nothing. The only thing that she is
able to do correctly all the time is make DF feel like a blithering
idiot, not able to stand on his own two feet. After I talked
him into taking some college classes that he was proud of, she asked
him what he was taking. When he told her that he was taking
some business classes, she laughed at him, and told him that he
was a moron anyway, and that he was wasting his time and money.
She wants to control every move he makes, but can't even control
her own. She gets monthly rent from us. She had a cable
bill in her name so that it's not in mine, because DF still owes
them money from when he was younger. She doesn't want it in
my name because she doesn't trust me. Trust me with what?
If the bill is in my name, then it's my problem. What would
she have to trust me about? She doesn't own the cable company.
She is such a blithering idiot that the best thing for us would
be to move far away. In order to do that, there are quite
a few things that we'd have to do first. Example: I
can't move out of state with my son unless my ex-husband agrees,
which he won't. I feel a little better about writing this.
She really makes me angry, and I can't even say anything to her
because we do still rent her home right now. I guess she assumes
that my DF is not telling me all the cr@p that she is saying behind
my back. Duh. By the way, I am going to school to hopefully
become a police officer, and am working full-time.
Signed - SCREAMING IN
MY HEAD "HELP" from MIL
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