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My MIL is always in our business.  She calls the house every morning and afternoon asking millions of question.  She is just being herself.  She asks my DH what he ate that day, what time he had to work, what time got off of work, what did I cook, etc.  It makes me so mad, because DH sits there and answers her like he's some 4 year old kid.  But, I'm always in the background as DH answers his mother's questions.  I say li'l smart-mouth things like, "Gosh!  Why is she asking all of those questions?  You're grown, and I'm grown.  It's none of her business."  I think that she hears me, too, but she asks her son anyway, "What did she say?"  Of course, DH lies to her and says something totally different to her.  Gosh!  Even if he's sick, she calls the house and wants him to come to her place, as if I don't know how to take care of him.  That pushes my buttons all the time.  So, guess what I did?  I had to work on DH to get him not to go to his mother's house every time that she asks him to visit.  The reason being that she only asks him over to ask him questions.  She knows that when she calls the house, he doesn't say much, like he used to.  So, she found a better way of getting him to talk.  I have a time limit on him when he goes to see his mother.  I told him that if he's at his mother's house for an hour or longer, then I will come and get him.  He knows that I will do it, and when I do it, he also knows that there's going to be nothing nice about me coming to get him.  So, he visits her, then he heads straight back home in 25 to 30 minutes.  She always tried to push me around.  She even went as far as trying to make vegetable soup better than mine only because her husband liked my soup better.  She's still competing against me today.  I wish that we could move away from her.  That would solve a lot of our problems in the marriage.  His mother's messing it up for us both.  Either that, or he's going to have to find another woman to marry, one who's going to put up with his mother.  I'm not the one.

        Signed - Always In Our Business
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Ugh.  Yesterday, I got an instant message from my SIL.  It told me, "Don't answer the phone."  Baffled, I asked, "Why?"  She replied, "Just don't!  Where's my brother?"  I said, "He is outside.  What on earth is going on?"  She reluctantly told me that my MIL and SIL are trying to reach my DH.  They have found an old fling of his, and want him to come see her.  MIL has been saying that she likes the other girl better, and wants my DH to divorce me and marry this other woman.  Ugh  She called, and my DH ducked under his pillow and whispered, "Please!  Please!  Tell her that I am asleep!"  So, I did, and she didn't believe me.  *Ugh!*  She said that the other woman is "better" for him.  She can give him free haircuts because she is a beautician.  Hmmm.

        Signed - I Hope My MIL Goes Bald
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Worst gift:  I know that she means well, but the gift that my MIL gave us for our first anniversary present was truly awful.  It was a cake cutter that looked pretty cool when we took it out of the box.  Upon closer examination, however, we discovered that the handle was, in fact, fashioned from a mini-sculpture of two naked, intertwined bodies!!  My question is:  To whom would I serve cake with this?  Ick!

        Signed - Still Using My Regular Knife
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