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When we got married almost 20 years ago, we had very little money.  I had moved here from Europe, and the only people from my family who could attend were my parents.  DH's mom and step-dad offered to have the wedding at their house (very simple!!!).  I had to make my own wedding cake, and my parents bought the champagne.  They also paid the reverend.  MIL gave us a table that she had found at one of those warehouses that sell old restaurant furniture as a wedding gift.  It still had gum stuck to the underside of it.  Her reason for it was, "We furnished so that we could have your wedding there.  I think that should be enough!"

        Signed - That Should Be Enough!
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        Signed - MIL Loves The Dollar Store
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I've been married for almost five years.  My MIL and FIL would always come to visit us for 10-14 days at a time, 2-3 times a year, since they were out of state.  Sometimes, it would bother me when she'd hang pictures or try to decorate with her "old" taste, but now we have bigger problems.  We had a baby 1 year ago.  When MIL found out that I3' was pregnant, she said, "Oh, really?"  And now they want to visit every few months.  Now that I'm not working, I'm stuck with them all day, and she is really annoying.  Her little "digs" get under my skin.  I finally put my foot down and told DH that they can only stay 3 nights, and then they would have to get a hotel room.  They agreed at first, and did so at Christmas.  But, this last visit they didn't get a hotel, and we had to tell them to leave and get one.  I guess that if she was a good houseguest (and friend), I wouldn't mind so much, but all she wants to do is try to be the mother to my DD.  Plus, she can never shut up.  She has to fill every silence talking about sh!t that doesn't even matter.  I wonder if any other people have rules on how long ILs should stay in your home.

        Signed - Unwelcomed MIL
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My MIL has been rude to me ever since I met my DH over 10 years ago.  She can't seem to manage a kind word out her mouth when it concerns me or my parenting.  These insults are said ever so sweetly, so that it seems like she is kidding or innocently making a remark.  The rest of her family doesn't mind, or they say that she didn't "mean anything".  DH just brushes it off and says that she can't be changed, so he never even confronts her or stands up for me.  To make it worse, she tries to listen to every bit of conversation that I have with my DH (even if she is at the other end of the room!).  She even invited herself on our honeymoon.  Thankfully, that didn't go through, but I just can't seem to have any peace with this woman, who only lives a mile away.  Nobody in her family seems bothered by her attitude or her pushy and childish behavior, not even my DH.  What can I do?  I feel like I am alone in this.

        Signed - Victim of MIL Abuse!
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