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June 17, 2004
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Worst gift:  I can top the worst gift.  How about no gift at all?  MIL began her reign of meanness before DH and I were married.  She began sending holiday cards only to my husband, i.e., "Merry Christmas Son" cards.  We had been living together for over 5 years, and dating for 15.  Nice, huh?  After we got married and we had DS, she decided that I should no longer receive any gifts so that she could concentrate on my son.  On Christmas, she came to my mom with gifts for DH and DS, but nothing for me.  Each year she does hand me a gift certificate to a restaurant, making the comment that this is for her son and me to share.  Nice, huh?  I don't know which is worse, receiving a piece of junk, or nothing at all.  I think that I would prefer to receive the piece of junk, with or without any true sentiment attached.  I dread the day when DS asks where MY present is!

        Signed - Reign of Meanness
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Worst gift:  My MIL was constantly interfering while we were planning our wedding.  She made us spend an entire weekend searching for her perfect dress to wear to our day.  She insisted on expensive touches to add to the event, touches that we could not afford.  She did not contribute to the cost of the wedding at all.  But, my favorite part of the whole thing was the gift that she gave us.  It was a towel elephant.  WHAT, you are asking, is that?  It is an elephant made out of towels.  My DH thought that it was precious.  I can't wait till it goes missing when we move from our apartment to a house.

        Signed - Towel Elephant
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I'm a woman and a mom, and I HATE MOTHER'S DAY.  My MIL passed away long before I met DH, so I cannot blame her for anything.  My parents made Mother's and Father's Day into awful events.  They would fight with each other, and then complain that my gift was not good enough.  So, I decided that I would not subject my son to this he!!, and that I would ignore the day altogether.  I called my mom today, and she asked what DH and DS gave me, and I said "nothing" because I really hate the pseudo card-selling-holiday.  I don't need cards and gifts to know that my family loves me.  I don't need a special day to myself or to be pampered by my family.  I only call my mom to make life easier for me, so that she'll stop whining about how close we aren't.  We'll, if she'd stop complaining about the gifts, maybe I'd make more of an effort.

        Signed - #1 Hater of Mother's Day
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