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My MIL makes sly, nasty comments that go undetected by my spouse.  Once, at a summer BBQ, she was encouraging guests to get into her hot tub.  I hadn't brought a bathing suit, and she offered to lend me one.  I declined, and in front of everyone she said, "Why not?  No one here cares how you look in a bathing suit."  She invites us over for dinner as a ploy to get my DH to fix her computer, and she hands me dirty laundry to take to the dry cleaners, since the cleaner is closer to my house than hers, and I "only work 3 days a week".  The sad thing is that this is typical of the women in DH's family (his sister and aunts are the same).  They constantly run me down.  The men in his family are all super quiet and just take it!  I have a million stories of awful comments and horrible behavior - temper tantrums, nasty phone calls, comments about my appearance, etc.  I am questioning my marriage at this point.  I want to move away from his family, but my DH does not.  HELP.

        Signed - Quiet Female Surrounded By Vipers
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My ILs have done some nasty, insensitive things over the years, but they aren't as bad as some of the things that I've read here.  With the help of two SILs (one of them is their daughter), I try to laugh about it.  For example, at family get-togethers they like to bring strangers up to me and introduce one of my kids, whom I'm holding, and completely ignore me.  I eventually extend my hand and say, "Hi, I'm also a DNA donor."  This usually gets a laugh and lets the ILs know that they were being rude.

        Signed - Trying To Keep My Sense of Humor
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On Mother's Day, I had purchased a few items for MIL from my kids.  She had not bothered coming home on Friday night, and had stopped by briefly on Saturday for a change of clothes.  She told us that she wasn't sure what she was doing on Mother's Day, but she said that we should call her, and maybe she could go to lunch with us.  Well, we called her, but she couldn't even be bothered with lunch.  She wasn't going to come home until very late that night, or maybe even the next day.  So, DH went out with his friends, and I didn't bother to wrap her presents, etc.  She eventually came home at 11:30 that night, and saw one of her presents (a fish in a vase with pretty rocks and live plants), but I didn't bother with getting out the other ones.  Tonight, a week after Mother's Day, she had the nerve to complain that I haven't given her a picture of my baby that we'd had done.  That was to be one of her presents, I told her, but since she hadn't bothered coming home, I hadn't bothered to give it to her.  So, she said, "I'm only the grandma," like its her RIGHT to have a picture that I paid for  And, to top it all off, I found out that she spent Mother's Day in the pool at her BF's apartment, swimming and playing with some of the kids who lived there!  She couldn't be bothered to come home to see her own grandkids, but she could swim with other kids - and I should GIVE HER A PICTURE?!  She's getting a wallet size, and that's it!!

        Signed - So Tired of Her Ignoring the Kids
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