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Worst gift:  It is so nice to see that I am not the only one in the world with a psycho MIL.  Where do I begin?  Let's begin with the tacky Christmas presents.  I could understand these types of gifts if the ILs had a low income, but they are loaded.  Every year we all receive dollar store or clearance rack items (including my children).  One year, I received a clearance rack sweater that came from a $10 and under store.  Not only was it 2 sizes too small, it was a huge turtleneck, sleeveless sweater.  Who in their right mind would wear this in the summer?  Then the next year, I received a rain gauge!  OK, what woman wants a rain gauge?  Now, let's get to my children.  One year, she bought my 2 year old son a tea set from the dollar tree, and a package of tissues.  Then, she had the nerve to say that it was from Santa!  Now, let's move on to the sticking our nose where it doesn't belong.  She thinks that our personal and financial business is her business.  It doesn't matter what we buy, she always asks how much it cost, and has some rude comment about it.  The one thing that drives me nuts, though, is when she says whatever is on her mind.  I was taught that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.  One time, she saw a picture, that I had up at work, of my DH and me.  She blurted out, in front of my coworkers, "You are not photogenic at all!"  Needless to say, I was hurt.  Then, one time I gave her a nice 8x10 photo of my children, and she said that she didn't like it.  She didn't like how they were sitting.  One year, when we were at my son's birthday party, she saw the TV that we had recently bought him.  She saw it and immediately started jumping down our throats, saying that children shouldn't have their own televisions, and saying that it was horrible.  Of course, she did this in front of my entire family, and they all thought that she was rude!  Last, but not least, we have the subject of her inviting us over for dinner.  Well, you better make sure that you eat a meal before you go, because she only fixes enough for you to get about one helping or less of food.  My DH always lets the kids and me fix our plates first, so we don't starve to death.  She is so cheap that she is afraid to have one ounce of leftover anything.  But, when she eats at my house, she goes back and gets 4 or 5 helpings of whatever I have.  She eats and eats.  She will eat you out of your house, and then say that she won't have to cook anything at her house because she is so stuffed from eating all of our food!  Ok, I just needed to vent!  I feel sooooooooooo much better now getting all that out!

        Signed - The DIL With A Weird MIL
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This past December, my MIL called me about a week before Christmas and "casually" mentioned that she didn't need any gifts for Christmas because she already had everything that she needed and wanted.  But, then, in the same breath, she added, "So instead of buying me anything, why don't you just send me some money."  I was ticked, because I'd all ready spent money on a nice gift for her.  But, since she wanted money, that's what she got:  A whole dollar tucked into a Christmas card, and I gave her original gift to one of my coworkers  When DH found out, he was livid.  But he got over it, of course.

        Signed - A Dollar Dance
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frequent fry her - desperately seeking sanity, 3 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - desperately seeking sanity, 3 of 4 needed /Posted: 24-JUN-04
My DH recently lost a good friend who succumbed to depression and took his own life.  DH was, naturally, very upset about this.  MIL's words of comfort were, "You never were lucky with friends, were you?  There was that boy who was killed in a road accident when you were at school, and your best friend emigrated to Australia!"  There's real compassion for you.

        Signed - Desperately Seeking Sanity
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