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This is actually about MY mother as a FMIL.  DF is one of the most helpful, accommodating and patient men on the planet.  In the past he has secretly arranged for her to surprise me with a visit.  This included her flight across country, her housing, and her entertainment.  He has made repairs on her house.  On the first full day of our last visit home, after an 18 hour drive, I had an appointment at a spa - a treat from her.  I had also made her an appointment.  So far, so good.  However, shortly before our visit she told me to cancel her appointment.  She made an appointment to get her hair done at a different salon at a the same time as my treatment.  So, DF spent the entire afternoon driving us around a city that he'd never been in, to get her to her appointment at 1:00, and me to mine at 1:30.  Of course, she never mentioned this before that morning.  Okay, he was happy to do it.  During the same weekend he worked on her wheelchair and fixed a light switch in her house.  There were no complaints from him.

        Signed - MY mother as a FMIL
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For our wedding, DF has graciously offered to drive his truck 45 minutes from his place of work in order to pick her up from the airport and drive her another 45 minutes to our town, where she is to stay.  The next day, he will drive us all another hour to the hotel where the wedding will take place that weekend.  Keep in mind, she is scheduled to arrive THREE days before the wedding.  Great guy, right?  But, is that enough?  First, she called to tell us that her best friend is coming with her.  Well, that's okay, we'll still all fit in the truck.  One person, two people, not much difference.  Then, she called a few weeks later to say that my cousin (her nephew) will also be coming with her.  Well, it's a tight squeeze.  Then, she called again to say that my other cousin (her niece) will also be coming with her.  So, now we have my mother arriving three days before the wedding with an entourage of three people.  They all expect my DF to pick them up and fit them and their week's worth of luggage into his truck.  Then, he is to basically transport them across the state (on our last night at home before our wedding).  These are all middle-aged, self sufficient folks.  When I mention that the (twin-cab) truck cannot accommodate that many people and things, she responded, "That's okay, we'll rent a car and follow you."  Oh, it gets better.  I then responded, "Well, then perhaps you can hire the limo service (which is cheaper than a rental car, by the way, and they have that information) and drive straight to the wedding hotel?"  It will save us from driving her and her posse around the state.  "Oh, well, I'd have thought that he could at least meet us at the airport and help us with our luggage."

        Signed - DD Of The MIL
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Worst gift:  I received a (new) purse with matching wallet for Christmas a couple of years ago.  DH knew the real story, but to spare my feelings he kept it to himself.  The purse wasn't my style, but I accepted it gratefully.  A couple of weeks after Christmas, we were all together in the car.  MIL asked if I liked the purse.  I said, "Yes, of course."  She replied with, "Thank God, because I hate it!!  It was given to me the Christmas before, and it has been in my closet until now!!"  I could have just pushed her out of the moving vehicle.  That purse ended up in my next garage sale (I couldn't even give it away).

        Signed - Couldn't Even Give It Away
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