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My MIL is passive-aggressive.  In fact, she almost always gets her own way.  When they purchased the home that they now live in, they had a neighbor who shared a back property line with them.  This neighbor's lot was a pie shaped lot.  It was quite large and very wide in the back.  In the corner of his yard he had two beautiful golden spruce trees.  They were magnificent.  MIL didn't like these trees because they "impeded" her view of a mountain over 200 miles away.  Anyway, she wrote the good man a letter, asking him ever so politely to "top" these trees so that she could have her view back.  He responded with a polite decline.  She then upped the ante and wrote letters to his dental practice, his neighbors, and the editor of her local newspaper.  When said man went to the police and the police informed her that she could be charged with harassment and that the dentist could sue her, she gave up.  Three months later the trees died.  No one knows exactly what happened, but, needless to say, the dentist moved his family out of the neighborhood.  Another family who had a dog whose barking had been bothering MIL as well left the neighborhood, too.  Wanna trade?

        Signed - Should Have Seen It Coming With The Nut Job
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My ILs came to visit us.  Amazingly, I really like my MIL, even though I am not a religious person and she is.  But, even if she does not approve, she respects my beliefs and never said anything against them.  The problem is my FIL.  I barely had the time to know them, since they live in a different country and they met me at the wedding.  However, my FIL always "jokes", and in the process he tries to made me look dumb.  Excuse me.  I am an engineer, for crying out loud!  They come from a very chauvinistic country, and I believe that he doesn't like the fact that his DIL is hardworking and, I admit it, opinionated.  When I was reading a copy of "National Geographic", he said, "I bet you can't understand it."  He said that joke because we speak the same language, and he thought that it was funny to say that I cannot read in English.  Excuse me.  My TOEFL score is 260/300, enough to take a graduate program at any university in the US.  I am currently taking some classes, and I returned home early once.  We finished the chapter - and what did he say?  "I bet you flunked the exam."  He has his whole family wait on him, and I believe that it's incredible that during the whole trip, paid by us, of course, he had never volunteered to pay even for a coffee.

        Signed - Not Amused By Bad Jokes
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My MIL is either stupid or just selfish.  Not long before my wedding, MIL and I were still at the stage where I just wasn't up on all her shenanigans, and we were still on speaking terms.  She'd call me at work to confer advice or ask me questions about the wedding plans.  It was all very pleasant.  During the week before the wedding MIL still had not bought a dress.  She had told me some time before that she had made a terrible gaff at BIL and SIL's wedding when she "accidentally" wore the same color as the bride's mom.  She went on to say what a big deal it was to THEM, and how she was the poor victim.  I actually felt sorry for her and told her so.  So, what did she do?  She came down and started asking what my mom was wearing for the wedding.  I thought, hmm, something's just not right.  I did tell her that my mom had picked out a couple of things and that she was trying to decide which one she'd wear.  One night, my parents, the FILs, DH and I went out for dinner so that our parents could get to know each other.  We then went back to my parent's house for coffee.  While we were there, MIL asked my mom what she was wearing to the wedding.  My mom showed her the two outfits, which were two different colors.  My mom had bought both and was trying to decide which she liked better.  It was at this point that I realized, for the first time since I'd known her, that MIL was up to no good.  I gave my mom a heads up about what she'd told me about the other SIL's wedding already, and, thankfully, my own mom knew what she was really wanting to know.  She kept asking my mom over and over, "Which color are you going to wear?"  Finally, I guess my mom told her that she just couldn't decide.  So, what did MIL do?  She went out and bought the exact same color as one of the outfits that my mom had bought.  We did not know what color she'd picked, we were just glad that she'd finally gotten something to wear and would shut up about it.  Unfortunately, the dress that MIL wore was almost the same exact color as the suit my own mother wore that day.  Luckily, the materials were so different that MIL's dress didn't look too much like the same color as my mom's.  But here's the thing, if the idiot complained that her other DIL's mother was pissed at her for doing this at her DD's wedding, why would she be stupid enough to do it again for her other DIL's wedding?  Oh, and she did try this stunt again.  She tried it at my DD's christening.  She worked her butt off trying to find out what I was wearing so that she could go out and buy a dress or suit the SAME color as Me - the mom of the baby being christened.  Or, should I say, the egg donor.

        Signed - Sick Of Her Games
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