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My DH and I moved to another state to go to school.  We had a move planned to go back home.  I lost my job a few months before the move, so I decided to move early with our son to get everything set up for my DH to join us.  My ILs said that we could stay with them until my DH came, so that I wouldn't be living alone.  They said that my DH should keep our car, and that they would drive me anywhere that I needed to go.  After three weeks I'd found an excellent, well paying job.  On my last day of training, I was standing in the kitchen ready to go when my MIL said, "Your son can't ride in a car seat because I'm taking the girls (my nieces), and they need car seats more.  Your son can stay here with dad, or go with us, without a car seat."  So I said, "Well there's no way he's riding without a car seat, so I guess he'll have to stay here."  She started flipping out like some crazy woman, screaming at me telling me to get my sh!t together and that I need to be locked up.  I went to the phone to call work or my DH, I hadn't decided which, and she ripped the phone out of the wall.  I pushed her hand away to put the cord back in the wall and she HIT me in the FACE!  I just started crying and I grabbed the cordless and my son.  I locked myself in my room.  I lost my job, so I went back to my DH that day.  I was scared to death of her!  To make things worse, my DH and I had been trying to have a baby prior to the job loss and move, and I was four weeks pregnant when this happened.

        Signed - Peachy Keen
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I stumbled across this site and have read many of the stories posted here.  Most of you have my sympathy.  My account pertains to a MIL of two, neither of whom, thankfully, is me (she is actually my grandmother).  Of her six children, only two, her only DD and a DS, have ever married.  Of course, their spouses have loads of stories to suit this site.  Of the unmarrieds, two still live with her, one is estranged, and one ended his life.  Her children range in age from 43 to 59.  She (and her DH, for that matter) has not groomed her sons to have healthy relationships with women.  I have seen her in action:  She drapes her soiled underwear over the doorknobs of "common areas" (bathrooms, laundry room).  With my own two eyes, I have seen her, on multiple occasions, attired in a tee-shirt and nude pantyhose - no underpinnings, no modesty.  Or, she sports merely a bra and slacks.  This woman is now in her early eighties and still behaves seductively toward her sons.  She spurns her children's attempts at building their own little families.  When I was younger and full of optimism, I had high hopes of "playing yenta" - uniting the youngest (now 43) with a certain woman with whom he shared many interests.  They seemed to hit it off!  I gleefully reported the meeting to my grandmother.  Glaring, she interrupted me with, "How old is she?"  I reported that the two (her son and his date) are about the same age.  She replied, "That's too old!"  Hmmmm.  Sick and wrong on so, so many levels.  Eeeew.

        Signed - GM is MIL to Two, Wannabe Wife to Four (Three Aging Bachelor Sons and Her Actual Hubby)
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Worst gift:  My MIL decided that she wanted me to wear her recently departed mother's neck-to-knee nighties for our wedding night.  I was shocked and didn't want to offend her, so I said nothing and took them.  My FDH was horrified and said, "No way (phew)."  So, I threw them at the back of the cupboard and forgot about them.  About a YEAR later she asked, "How did the nighties go on your wedding night?"  I had to think at first, what nighties?  In horror, I realized what she was talking about, and decided that honesty should be the best policy, "Neither of us felt comfortable with the whole idea, so I didn't wear them."  "I'll have them back, then."  Boy was she angry.  It took me a couple of weeks to remember whether I had thrown them out.  I found them and returned them.  It's an ongoing joke with my FSIL that she, too, may be given the same option for her wedding night.  I hope not, for her sake.

        Signed - At Arm's Distance
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