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Worst gift:  For my birthday I received a book "Gentle Reminders to Help You Cherish the Ones you Love".  On the inside my MIL wrote "Thank you for loving my son and for bringing my granddaughter into my life.  I have read each word in this book, and I expect you to read them and take them to heart."

        Signed - Just Weird
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Ok, ok, I may just have the craziest MIL ever.  A little background first:  My DH is abut 7 years older than I am.  Before he and I married, he had a GF for about 6 years.  MIL LOVED her, and I mean LOVED.  When he met me, MIL was out of state visiting my SIL (lucky her).  Well, from the moment MIL came back to find me in her son's arms, she has hated me.  We married and it was the worst wedding ever, thanks to her.  We had 2 miscarriages and separated after many upsets.  My MIL called me at a friend's to tell me to "get over it" and that "they weren't real babies, anyway", even thought I was starting the 2nd trimester in both.  She said that she knew what it was like to lose a child, and that it doesn't even compare.  Well, while separated, I found out that I was pregnant.  And yes, it was DH's.  But that didn't suit her.  After a year of her telling everyone in the free world that I was nothing, she finally warmed up to the idea of having a GD.  Although, she had 3 GSs in another state.  This would be the only girl and only GC in her state.  She now thinks that she is her mother.  She is always acting so.  She is there for school interviews, sitter interviews, everything.  She has even taken my child to the doctor without me knowing until after the fact, when she called to ask for money for the medicine.  Then we had our son.  She wants nothing to do with him, and I mean NOTHING!  She will not keep him or anything.  If I have a Dr. appointment and ask her to sit for me, she tells me that she will keep the girl, but not the boy.  She even threatened my DH.  We were going on a trip to visit my SIL.  MIL asked if she could come.  Now, SIL is the next best thing to sliced bread, according to MIL.  Every time she is near, she and the MIL go to the beach, or camping, or something, and they never ask if we would like to go.  So, I told DH that I did not want her going, but, she insisted on it.  SO, she came along, (d@rn it).  Horrible.  We couldn't do anything, and when we wanted to go to the city, she threw a fit and said that she would just go along for the ride (she has seen it all before many times, she said).  But, that was not the case.  She had her own plan and it didn't include anything that we wanted to do.  So, let's get to the point.  One night we put DD to bed downstairs in the finished basement.  They were moving chairs upstairs on a hardwood floor - they were so very loud.  DH asked them to be more quite.  NOPE.  He got ill at them and told them so.  The next morning MIL came downstairs and told DH that if he ever talked to her like that again, that she would kill him.  She said that she would come at him with everything she had and would KILL him.  We ended up having my mother pick us up from the airport and she went home with FIL.  Thank God my mom lived close.  And then today I got an email from a "friend" telling me off.  So, I called her sister and she informed me that my MIL has been running her mouth about me, telling people that I have been saying stuff about them.  WRONG!  I called MIL, and she yelled at me.  She told me how bad a mother I am, that I don't deserve my kids, and that my DH raises them, not me.  I started shaking from anger and tossed the phone to my DH.  He calmly started talking to her, asking what was going on.  She told him that I cheat on him, and so on and so on, which I don't.  She told me how bad a mother I was and all.  He started yelling at her and she said that she would have the kids taken from us and everything.  Finally, DH said, "That's fine, you do that.  But, remember this, you will never see my kids again," and he hung up.  We haven't heard from her.  I hate that it had to come to that , but there is sooooo much more that she has done.  She has told people things about us, especially me, that aren't true.  And yeah, she's the worst gift giver.  That doesn't even come close to naming her correctly.  I think she hates me because I am not his ex-GF.  I really feel that way.  For one, MIL would give her furs and real jewelry as gifts, and take her on all expenses paid trips with her.  Not once has she done anything like that for me.  She has always put me down, to my DH, to my kids and to everyone else.  I know she does this stuff on purpose.  How can she not?

        Signed - Enough Is enough In the South
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Worst gift:  My MIL is the queen of all those who give horrid gifts.  She has given me used bathing suits from the thrift store, dirty and rusty dishes from garage sales, and soiled sheet sets.  She even gave my DH and I (we are the only ones who live in our house) a case of 48 rotten caramel apples.  But, what she gave me for my birthday tops the cake.  She came over to my house and said, "Since your birthday is coming up, I decided to go out and get you something.  She handed me a pretty basket with a bar of soap and shower gel, as well as a half-used bottle of lotion.  As I looked at it, it looked terribly familiar.  Two years ago I gave her the same exact basket, with the same exact soap and lotion in it.  It also had bath salts and a few other things.  Apparently, she used what she wanted out of it and then gave me the rest back as a "gift".

        Signed - Victim Of A Rude Cheap MIL
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