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In my DH's family, some members share a birthday month, so we usually celebrate all of them together.  For example, my DH and his sister have birthdays in September, and I share a birthday with his GM in March.  So, one September DH, his sister and his parents (who celebrate their anniversary in September) each got a cake celebrating their day.  They had a total of 3 cakes.  We ate one, I brought my DH's cake home, and the sister's cake was stored at my MIL's house.  Well, SEVEN months later it was time to celebrate GM's and my birthday, and you guessed it, not only did we share a cake, but it was the LEFTOVER cake from my SIL's birthday!  So, the cake said "Happy Birthday (SIL's name)" on it!  After a few comments from some of the family, my MIL tried to recover by SMEARING her DD's name off the cake.  Of course, it was one of those cakes with the person's photo on it, so it still had SIL's face on it.  The only thing that kept me from thinking that she completely thinks nothing of me, was that it was GM's cake, too.  This year was better.  We didn't get any cake at all, just fortune cookies from the Chinese restaurant where we ate.

        Signed - Waiting For A Birthday Cake With My Name On It
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My MIL has been known, on more than one occasion, to duplicate the gifts that my mother has gotten DD.  We will be talking about DD's upcoming birthday, and she will ask what DD wants.  I always make suggestions, but typically also tell her what my mother is getting her.  Every time I have done that, my MIL has gotten one or more of the same exact gifts, but also clearly needs to top my mother.  For example, when my DD turned 6, she really wanted a toy oven that really bakes cakes, which my mother promised to get her.  I told MIL that since my mom was buying the oven, maybe she could buy some stuff to go with the oven (pans/utensils/kits to bake).  A few weeks later she insisted on seeing DD BEFORE her birthday -- said she couldn't wait another week until her birthday to give DD her gift.  I was certain that her gift had nothing to do with our oven theme, and that that was why it couldn't wait.  That would have been fine with me - I only made the suggestion because she asked.  She showed up with not only the oven, but also utensils/pans/kits to use with it.  This year DD turned 10.  MIL didn't call her or send a gift.  A few days later she called DH to ask him something, and DD answered the phone.  DD told MIL that my mother had given her money this year for her birthday, $25, which was a lot of money for her, and she was really excited.  What showed up in the mail 3 days later?  A check, from MIL to DD, for $30!

        Signed - Competitive MIL
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On my wedding day I was standing at the back of the church with my father, waiting to be walked down the aisle.  It was a large wedding that took over two years to plan, and my parents footed the entire bill.  I turned to my dad and asked him if he knew the person in the bridesmaid dress that was standing next to my maid-of-honor.  He, of course, said that he did not know that person.  It turns out that my SIL didn't feel well.  She had morning sickness and decided that she couldn't go to the wedding.  So, my dear MIL decided to take the dress that I paid for and give it to her niece to wear.  Of course, nobody even bothered to tell me or my DH.  This event was the start of 16 years of being treated like cr@p by my ILs.  Needless to say, my wedding day was filled with people asking about how my SIL was feeling.  MIL and FIL had to announce at the reception that their DD was pregnant with their first grandchild.  Yup, talk about taking away the spotlight from the newlyweds.

        Signed - Stop The Insanity
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