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After I had my DS, my step-MIL bought a family van and was talking about getting a car seat.  She also calls herself, "Mommy" and her DH, "Daddy" at times, when speaking to my DS.  She has zero experience with babies or toddlers (became a step-mom to my DH when he was 15), and shows considerable lack of judgment (offers baby permanent markers to play with, sharp objects, etc.).  Plus, she is a horrible driver (been ticketed for erratic driving - on a sunny day while cold stone sober).  Luckily, before she got the car seat, she totaled her car making an illegal u-turn.  I do not doubt her love for DS, but hate the way she gloats to my partially paralyzed mom, whenever they meet, about how she loves holding DS, how she loves baby-sitting (as if that would EVER happen), and details every visit so my mom can "share the experience".  Please.  She's partially paralyzed, not brain dead.  And when my mom is hosting a holiday, SMIL will ask to be invited!  This wouldn't be such a big deal, except SMIL never reciprocates.

        Signed - Sigh. I Wish She Was Considerate
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Help!  My mother is morphing into the MIL from he!!.  A little background info:  BF is a stand up guy - good grades, steady job, eagle scout, worships me and he's always been sweet and polite to my family.  But, my mom hates him and I don't know why.  I'm a college student who's not using mom's money, and I'm living on my own, so it's not that we're too young or acting irresponsibly.  Because I'm a college student, I do have to crash on my family during breaks (I help w/housework and home schooling, so I'm not draining family resources).  Of course, my BF visits me once in awhile, but he's not allowed in her house!  Twice during the winter I let him step inside while a grabbed something, and my mom threw a fit - because he was standing inside the door!  Another time he helped me carry in groceries.  I actually asked her if it was okay for him to come inside the house.  She said, "Yes," and then afterward she started screaming at me for putting her "on the spot".  Twenty minutes later a neighbor's son, who's the same age as my BF, came over and asked about using her pool.  She smiled and cooed, invited him in, and spent AN HOUR talking to him in our living room.  She couldn't even say "hi" to my BF, who had been dating me for 6 months at the time.  Of course, I didn't let her get away with this.  She claimed that she was "more comfortable with my people", and then later denied it, claiming that I was trying to make her look racist.  BF and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years, and he's eaten dinner with my family 3 or 4 times.  Last time my mom got a little drunk and was understandingly embarrassed about it.  What did she do?  Instead of apologizing for it or joking about it, she said that he is FORBIDDEN to ever enter the house again!  And he's been nothing but understanding and polite towards her!  My stepsister's BF, who was also there, comes over every day, but "he's different".  Help!!  What can I do?!  BF and I have talked about getting married after graduation, but I'm worried about my mom.  She's already sat me down and told me how she's looking forward to being mother of the bride and sewing my dress.  She's never even finished sewing an adult dress!  I love my mom, but she's a [fill in the blank] towards my BF, father, stepmother, and grandmother.  I would elope, but it's very important for us to be married in a church, so we can't do that.  Any advice?  Please.

        Signed - Desperate Daughter
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My MIL has made my wedding planning an absolute nightmare.  So far she has done everything from call my invitations tacky to telling me that her son enjoys sex.  Often.  The final straw was last week when she and her friends told me that they were no longer interested in throwing me a bridal shower.  We had already sent out the invitations.  Her excuse?  It obviously wasn't a part of my plan.  Oh yes, and she also took it upon herself to invite a girl who is in love with my DF to the wedding.

        Signed - Wedding Nightmare
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