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frequent fry her - good2befreefromtheinsanity, 1 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - good2befreefromtheinsanity, 1 of 4 needed/Posted: 1-OCT-06
I met and married my ex-DH in high school.  At that time I moved out of my parent's home and moved in with his family, thinking that they were a "relatively normal" family.  They certainly appeared that way until just weeks after I made the move.  I was attending school and my ex-DH was working.  We were trying to save up to move into our own place, but I honestly believe that my ex-DH wanted to stay there with his parents, as they weren't charging us rent and we came and went as we pleased.  But, it came with a catch:  My ex-MIL and FIL would frequently go through all of our possessions in our bedroom and invade our privacy.  I'd finally had enough of it, and scraped together whatever money we had and got our own apartment.  His parents would stop by at all hours of the day.  They would pound on our door and yell that they saw our vehicle outside and that we were home, and that we'd better answer the door.  Once we let them in, they would head straight towards the kitchen, look in the fridge and cabinets, and make rude comments about how we didn't have enough food or that our place wasn't looking good enough.  They would always give us money here and there, but they would make a big deal out of it.  They would talk about how if we didn't have them to give us gas money during hard times, we would be nowhere.  My ex-FIL would always boast about how much money he made and how good his credit was, yet my ex-MIL was making plans to divorce him because they were always fighting.  I later learned that she had filed a Domestic Violence order against him, but apparently it was later dropped.  She needed him to maintain her appearance:  Perfect house, brand new cars to drive, new clothes, yearly vacations, etc., and he was more than happy to remind her that without him, she wouldn't have any of this.  This should have been my first warning about what was to come.  But I was in high school and didn't know any better, and dumbly assumed that none of this would affect me.  The fights with them invading our privacy and my ex-MIL always calling and checking up on us got worse and worse.  We decided to keep them out of our lives and then we got engaged.  They were all invited to our wedding, which was small, and my ex-FIL had the nerve to assume that I was only marrying his son because I was pregnant.  He said that I could have an abortion, or that we didn't need to make the same mistake that he did a long time ago by marrying my ex-MIL when he got her pregnant.  Well, I was definitely NOT pregnant before I married my ex-DH, and didn't become pregnant until almost a year after we were married.  We had ended up moving out-of-state just to get away from them and their craziness, and to move on with our lives.  We moved and were happy for a few months, until I discovered that I was . . .

        Signed - good2befreefromtheinsanity
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I got married weeks ago.  My MIL came to 1 of my 6 bridal showers.  She did not help with the wedding.  On the wedding day she did not speak to me or give me any compliments.  She had not spoken of the wedding until today.  Then she said to me, "You looked so nervous at the wedding that I thought you were going to hurl.  Everyone I've talked to said that they were sitting there waiting on you to throw up, too."  I said, "Thanks, you looked nice too," and walked off.

        Signed - Going Crazy
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frequent fry her - blondie Frequent Fry Her TM. - blondie/Posted: 1-OCT-06
Worst gift:  For our first Christmas together we went out of our way to get my FIL great presents.  I'm a huge gift giver.  We spent a lot of time and money finding the right gifts for everyone.  As we were going to be with my family on Christmas Day, we sent their gift early so that they would be sure to get them.  We waited for our gift to come in the mail.  First they put down the wrong address, and they had to mail it again.  Then the parcel got lost for a week and we didn't get it till after the holidays.  My dear honey was so excited when they finally came.  The gifts were coffee (we both hate coffee) crackers, re-gifted candles, and chocolate(my DF doesn't like chocolate).  His sister got a digital camera.  His brother got new high end ski's, as well as play station games and cds.  We got old food and candles.  I still said a big thank you.

        Signed - BTW, The ILs Are Rich
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