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I was looking for some pictures and came upon a photo album that my MIL compiled for my DH a few years back.  I honestly don't remember if we were married at the time.  I think that we were engaged.  Anyway, it's a lovely photo album - of my DH and all his ex-GFs!  I guess I should feel honored though, there are 2 of me in it!  Seriously, no cute baby pictures or family pictures, just photos of him kissing and hugging girls!

        Signed - I Should Feel Honored
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(1)  My ex-MIL followed us to our apartment after our wedding (in other words, our wedding night!) and stayed until 2:00 AM (the wedding and reception were over by 9:00).  With her, she brought along her parents, my FIL, and my two SILs.  They only left then because I fell asleep on the couch.  During the "visit", she and other families discussed how our property would be divided up if we divorced.  (2)  My ex-MIL announced to the entire family that I was an "unfit mother" the day that I brought my son home from the hospital.  She said this because I was taking a nap while the baby slept, having just given birth the day before.  Naturally, she had to keep waking the baby up to justify the fact that I was "lazy" and not taking care of him.  (3)  My ex-DH once slapped me in their house, and I reacted badly.  MIL physically prevented FIL from entering the room so that he could not "interfere" in our argument, and told ex-DH to "take me home if he was going to do that".  She did not say, "Don't do it," but she said, "Do it somewhere else."  Then she offered us the ride home.  (4)  MIL told me that ex-DH would not drink to excess, write bad checks, be unemployed (by choice), trash all our vehicles (including taking our street vehicles to the drag strip and racing them), or exhibit other various bad habits if I would "just be a good wife".  (5) When I finally left DH, MIL was convinced that I had chosen to leave on a particular day because it was her birthday.  I had no idea that was the same day, she'd never told me her birthday.  They didn't celebrate it.

        Signed - Would Have Divorced Him Just Because Of Her
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My MIL is a smoker (heavy smoker).  This has always been an issue with me because I get headaches when exposed to cigarettes.  DH and I have been married for 6 six years, and together for 11.  Needless to say, MIL has always hated me.  In June of 2005 I became pregnant.  I immediately let her know that my child would not be around smokers for the obvious reasons.  She stopped for two weeks and then started again.  My son was born early this year, and he is so precious.  MIL has not once respected my wishes.  Every time I see her, she grabs the baby and goes off somewhere with him, like she is showing ownership.  Weird.  One day, she was at my house and went outside to smoke.  When she came back in, she wanted to hold the baby.  I'd had enough at this point and said, "Have you washed your hands after smoking?"  She replied, "NO!"  I told her that she could not hold the baby, and she ran off hysterically crying into her sons arms.  Then she left, only to call in a few moments to say that she would never some back to my house again.  I tried to call her and talk to her about it so that we could resolve the problem, but she would never respond to my messages.  One day, I called her and she told me that keeping my son away from cigarette smoke was protecting him from "life".  I am screwing him up, and as long as I feel like this, she will not have anything to do with us (but, she calls her son's cell all the time).  DH was furious, but never will confront her because he says that she never listens and he wants to avoid conflict.  I want him to cut off all ties to her until she respects the way that we want to raise our son.

        Signed - I'd Had Enough
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