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I had pre-eclampsia and had to be induced.  My active labor was 38 hours long, and ended in a C-section.  I'd repeatedly told DH that NO ONE, and I mean NO ONE but him was to be in the delivery room with me.  Granted, when I said that over and over, I didn't realize that I'd be in labor for 38 hours.  Still, I am very independent, and when I'm in pain I like peace and quiet.  MIL apparently called out of work and sat in the waiting room for over a day, leaving only to get food in the hospital's kitchen.  After 24 hours of labor, she entered the delivery room and said, "I know you didn't want visitors, but I figured you could use the company."  I wanted to jump out of the bed and toss her out the window.  Thank goodness I was in too much pain to move.  The doctor came in to check how dilated I was, and MIL didn't budge.  I had to ask her for some privacy.  She returned as soon as the doctor left, with food.  Now, anyone who's been induced or just in labor knows that you go an awful long time without eating.  I hadn't eaten anything but popsicles in about 35 hours at this point, and there she was with a chicken Caesar salad and candy.  The doctor came back to discuss options with me, and AGAIN I had to ask MIL to leave.  The options for my delivery were between me, my doctor, and DH, but it had nothing to do with MIL.  At that point I asked the doctor not to let MIL return.  If DH was so spineless that he wouldn't tell her, the doctors would have to.  I was in active labor and didn't need to be addressing anything but the birth of my child.  So, we found out that we needed an emergency C-section, and that happened at 12:31 a.m.  Well, I was being stitched up and couldn't hold my son.  They took him to the nursery.  Later that day my DH got pictures of the whole thing developed, and I saw one of MIL holding my son.  My first child, my first born, and she held him before me!!!!!!!  She held him before me!!!!  I burst into tears.  It was bad enough that she showed me no respect by not acknowledging that I didn't want her there, but then she held my son before I even did???????  I flipped out on DH, the doctors, or anyone who would listen.  And, I've barely spoken a word to her since.  I don't answer her calls (although she calls very often) and won't visit her home.  I cringe any time I see her holding my son.  It's been 4 months, and I am not even close to over it.

        Signed - ThatGirl
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frequent fry her - twinmommy731, 1 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - twinmommy731, 1 of 4 needed/Posted: 14-OCT-06
My MIL is a pain in my @ss and SIL is no different.  She copies everything that I do!!  At first I thought it was flattering, but now it's creepy.  Here are a few things that she has done to look and be like me.  I have always dyed my hair red.  Well, she went and dyed her hair red.  She even asked me what color I used!  I didn't tell her and she bought the one that she thought I chose.  She asks me what mousse I use in my hair because she wants hair like mine.  It was ok at first, but now it's annoying being asked over and over about my hair.  Every time I do something to it, she goes and does it.  I got really cute slippers that look like sandals, and the next day she went and bought some and kept telling me about it, and how much better hers are.  We were shopping together and I saw a jacket that I loved and wanted.  She wanted the same jacket.  Even though, earlier, she saw the jacket and said that she did not like it.  So annoying.  She only likes clothes if I like them.  I love pink and have a lot of pink things.  She hated pink, but, you guessed it, now she says she loves it.  She buys everything pink, like me.  I have always wanted a particular type of dog, and now she says that she wants one!  I am a purse freak and now so is she.  She never even owned a purse until she knew that I love purses.  I know these things seem trivial, but imagine it in your face EVERY DAY!!  Imagine everything you do being copied.  I like my individual style and being me.  I don't like it when someone tries to copy that and become me.  Thank you for letting me vent!!

        Signed - Mini me SIL
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frequent fry her - klaniro, 2 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - klaniro, 2 of 4 needed/Posted: 14-OCT-06
Worst gift:  Ilk!  This one is easy.  When my MIL comes here for a visit, she always brings a boatload of junk with her to give out as "gifts".  Usually, the majority of the "gifts" are t-shirts out of the 49 cent bin, but have included some real stinkers.  One Christmas she gave me four wooden knives.  Yep.  Four useless wooden knives.  They weren't to use, but were too ugly for decoration.  BUT, this doesn't get the worst gift award.  She once brought my DH the foot of a dead cow (leg, hoof and all) that had been hollowed out and made into a CANTEEN!  He was not only suppose to keep this piece of DEAD ANIMAL, but he was suppose to DRINK OUT OF IT!  I couldn't stand it.  We hid it under the couch (it gave me nightmares just having it in the house) until she left and then tossed it.  Oooooh, it still gives me chills thinking about that ugly thing.

        Signed - Has A Room Full Of Crappy MIL Gifts
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