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It's not so much one event, rather an accumulation of small "things" that have pushed me over the edge with my MIL.  We enjoy my FIL very much.  He's helpful, handy, quiet and willing to go with the flow.  His wife, my MIL, is the total opposite.  She's bossy, demanding, and controlling.  She lays the guilt trips on THICK.  When we were first married, we went over a couple of times a week, as we had little income and would have dinner there.  Now, 3 years later, we're doing very well and have bought our first house.  We also both work full-time and are extremely busy.  When we first bought the house, she would show up unannounced and unexpected at any random given moment.  We would be in the pool, cleaning, in the shower, painting, etc., and there she'd be.  If we didn't answer the door right away, she'd walk around the house to find us, yelling for us.  And sometimes she'd bring other people over to see OUR house!  Oh God!  DH is kind of weak around her and won't tell her directly to stop.  He'll kind of beat around the bush and suggest it.  So I had to send an email to everyone to "call before you come over".  Then she complained, saying that I yelled at her to not come over anymore (not sure how you yell in an email, but whatever).  Since we put a stop to that, she's been emailing me constantly, claiming that the mail is for my DH (to my account??).  She plays the "poor me" card.  She whines we don't come see her, and says that her "baby boy always used to come over to hang out" (read:  You stole my son, you evil DIL).  This past week I received 23 emails from her, and she was gone for 2 of those days.  I finally had to write back, politely, that we were our own family and will visit when and whom we choose.  So now the message she puts on her instant message is, "Busy, but always have time for our kids."  Yes, my MIL uses IM to constantly check up on us!

        Signed - Afraid To Have Kids
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I have been engaged twice to the same man.  Why did I leave him the first time?  HIS MOTHER!  Sorry, I couldn't do the MIL from he!!.  I refused.  So I left the man that I loved.  Then, after two years of trying to find that happiness again, we both decided to try it again.  Now we are getting married.  But she is ruthless.  She hates the colors of the wedding.  She hates the dresses.  Even my FSIL isn't excited about being a bride's maid.  My poor FFIL is sad all the time.  I can only imagine what she says about me.  She has called me everything in the book.  She even got into it with my mom.  She told my mom that I won't leave her son alone, and that I "just won't go away".  She even picked out white fabric for her mother of the groom dress.  She told me that would look better with her complexion!  Finally, my DF got some balls and told my parents and his parents that we were getting married, and if they were coming, fine, if not, so be it!  That's was 6 months ago.  She hasn't talked to either of us since!

        Signed - The New "High Ridin" B!TCH Who Refuses To Back Down!!!
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frequent fry her - sgtpepper 2 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - sgtpepper 2 of 4 needed/Posted: 16-OCT-06
Get this!  My MIL gave us her end tables a few years ago when she moved in with her BF.  They match the rest of our stuff, and DH and I needed new ones (used or not).   Before she gave them to us, she sanded down the corners.  My first DS was 3 then, and she was sure that he would crack his head open on one of the pointy corners.  Now we have a 2nd DS, who's 9 months old.  She asked me if I was going to sand the edges down some more.  He's very active and climbs on anything.  I said, "No, my kids will learn NOT to climb on things they don't belong on.  I won't alter anything in my home."  MIL did not like that comment.  She showed up with sand paper at her next visit.  I was out getting the mail, and when I came back in I could hear her sanding away at my end tables.  I told her to stop, and she just went faster.  I pulled it away.  She got up, wiped off her clothes and said, "Well, if you want him to hurt himself, go ahead."  Then, I looked down and my 9 month old DS had his mouth on the corner, wood dust and all.  I told her to get the vacuum and clean it up.  She threatened to take back HER end tables.  It's been 3 years since she gave them to us.  I had her leave shortly after.

        Signed - I Wish She Would Just Go, Forever
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