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My IL's generosity has always "under-whelmed" me.  But the final straw was our silver wedding anniversary.  One year prior, my SIL had celebrated her 25th.  I picked out a silver clock/picture frame and had it properly engraved.  I mailed it in time for it to arrive on their actual anniversary, and was anxious to hear how they liked it.  I had contacted my MIL about organizing a celebration for them, but she just laughed and told me that I was silly.  I didn't want to step on anyone's toes, so thought that just the gift would be the proper course of action.  My SIL called me practically in tears.  She informed me that I was the only family member to acknowledge their silver anniversary.  I was shocked, and chalked it up to my socially backward MIL.  How a mother could refuse to celebrate a child's milestone event is beyond me.  Two months later my MIL had her 50th anniversary.  All the family gathered, some from out of state!  My MIL put an article in the local newspaper about her and my FIL's life together and laminated an article for every family member.  Odd, that her anniversary was that newsworthy, but her own DD's was of no significance at all.  They were showered with lovely gifts and much attention, which is how it should be.  The next summer we had our 25th.  You guessed it.  Not a gift, not a card, not a phone call, not even a lousy e-mail from my MIL, and we only live 40 minutes away.  What was worse was that my SIL, who was so "moved" by our gift, did not respond in any way, either!  I guess the old saying is true; no good deed goes unpunished!

        Signed - Sick of Taking a Back Seat
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I thought that I had a great relationship with MIL.  Technically, she is not my MIL yet.  Long story.  We have a little boy, who is MIL's pride and joy.  Shorter story, DS is 2, and we are having another child.  MIL is SUPER p!ssed because we are not married yet.  She just recently converted back over to her original religion (fine), and proceeds to push it down my throat that we are not living our lives the way GOD wants us to.  I told her that I didn't agree (the first time in 5 years that I've flat out told her so), and she got ANGRY at me again.  She had the audacity to say, "Well, I guess I know that you're pregnant for sure because you seem pretty hormonal."  UGH.  I just wanted to SLAP her.  Then she got angry at me for stating my feelings, and left my house.  Fast forward to about a week later.  I was at my GM's house.  MIL called and said that she was going to drop off her dog.  Ok, no problem.  I said that I'd meet her at my house.  I got home with DS and MIL was already in my house cleaning up because it was driving her crazy, and acting like nothing had happened.  She bought us "paper" shades because we just had our windows replaced and it was bothering her that we hadn't gotten blinds yet.  There is still more, but I would have to write a novel.  Let's just say that I understand why her DD moved 2 hours away!

        Signed - MIL Is SUPER P!ssed
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I just got a phone call last night from my MIL saying that I will never be good enough for her son because I am not the same race that his family is, and I do not have a degree.  On top of that, she proceeded to scream at me till I was in tears, telling me that she wanted to inflict the pain on me that I inflicted on her when I told her that I was pregnant!  I am still up in arms over this, and very hurt.  It looks like I won't be seeing her for a while.  Good thing she lives 4 states away from us!

        Signed - Not Good Enough For Her, But Damn Good Enough For Her Son
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