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I am married to an only child.  I will have my MIL's only grandkids.  Here's my story:  When I was about 6 months pregnant, I mentioned to my MIL that no one would be allowed to smoke around our baby.  Both she and step-FIL smoke like chimneys, so she had a fit.  When I didn't budge, she said, "I'm going to talk to my son about this."  She did, immediately upon the return to their house, and my DH said, "Of course you can't smoke around our child.  Are you kidding me?!"  A bigger argument ensued, but we, of course, stuck to our guns.  A month or two later, MIL found out that we were inviting a sister of hers, whom she doesn't, like to a shower.  MIL told us that if the sister is invited, MIL and her family weren't coming.  Now this sister had done A LOT for us.  The furniture that we sat on was given to us by her, for example.  I, of course, said, "Can't you just keep the peace for 2 hours?"  No, she couldn't, apparently.  So, my DH, who always has my back said, "Then don't invite my mom or her family, if they are going to behave this way.  It is about you and our baby, not them."  So we didn't.  Not one member of his family was invited to the shower.  I've heard the phrase, "I'll just have to talk with my son about that," so many times that my head can spin.  Maybe one day she'll realize that it doesn't matter, because every time she does, he backs me up.  Now that the baby is here, we are, of course, incapable of taking care of her, in my MIL's opinion.  When the baby was 6 months old, she gave me lessons on feeding her.  I wanted to ask, "How do you suppose she's made it to 6 months old?!"  But, I continue to . . .

        Signed - Bite My Tongue
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When one of MY parents died, my ILs called and gave condolences to my DH, at his work.  I was at home and we have a phone.  They never once expressed sympathy to me.  They have yet to do so, and I am not holding my breath.  My DH's coworkers were more caring.  They called to check on me, and sent flowers.

        Signed - Not Holding My Breath
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My ILs moved across the U.S. from the rest of the family last year.  They previously had been living in a motor home for 4 years while they traveled the country.  While traveling, they stored many of their belongings in our garage.  Even though they moved last year, most of the stuff is still in our garage.  They took things that made no sense, and left items that would be useful.  When they stored their stuff in our garage, after they sold their home and moved into the MH, they gave us a refrigerator to replace a freezer of ours that they sold with their house.  Anyway, when they relocated to their new home last year, they came by and got a bunch of their stuff.  The home that they purchased had no refrigerator, so we offered to let them have the one they had given us.  They turned it down, even though they were strapped for cash.  Well, my DH and I helped them move.  We each drove a vehicle loaded to the gills with cr@p and spent five days driving to their new home.  We paid for our hotel room each night, and for two nights of theirs.  We paid for fuel and all but ONE of our meals, and most of theirs.  My DH was off work for 8 days for this "adventure".  We also paid for our own flight home.  To add insult to all of this injury, when we arrived at our destination, MIL had the nerve to ask us if we wanted to buy them a new refrigerator in exchange for the one that they had given us.  Well, my DH told her, "As I recall, you gave us the fridge to replace the freezer of ours that you sold with your house.  And before we left to move you down here, we offered to give that fridge BACK to you."  Nothing more was said about a refrigerator.

        Signed - My MIL Has Balls!
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