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When I was planning my wedding, I told MIL that my bridesmaids and I found beautiful dresses.  I described the store and the dresses to her.  We weren't sure if we were going to get them yet, though.  The next week she was so excited that she bought her mother of the groom dress and she had to show it to me.  Of course, it was the same dress and color that I was looking at for my bridesmaids.  She then asked me if I liked it, and if it was okay.  When I didn't say much, she got upset and I spent the next half hour comforting her that it was indeed okay that she bought the dresses that I was looking at for my bridesmaids.  Oh, and for the church ceremony she wore an off white ensemble, the exact color of my dress.  She thinks she's the best MIL ever.  I let her think that.

        Signed - Doormat
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I've been married for nearly two years, and since I moved to this house, which is next to my IL's house, I haven't had a peaceful weekend with my DH.  Every weekend, and many days during the week, my SILs and BILs come to our house, without any notice, and play cards with my DH till midnight.  Last year when I was pregnant, they used to come, smoke, play cards without even asking me to join, and then leave without washing a dish or a glass.  The house was left a mess.  I just can't rest or sleep because of their loud voices.  Their children dominate the computer and the TV.  None of them considered that we were newlyweds and wanted to enjoy the weekend alone.  Nor did they consider that I was pregnant.  Even when I reached the ninth month, nothing changed.  I spoke to my DH many times.  He told me that they come without telling him, and he can't ask them to leave once they are here.  The problem is that we can't even pretend that we're out of the house because my MIL and FIL simply tell them that we're at the house.  I've spent every weekend in the bedroom crying.  They treat my DH in a well, so he feels ashamed to ask them to leave, or to not come to our house.

        Signed - Great Weekends
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My MIL lives in another country, so we don't see her often.  However, the guilt trips still come over the phone.  My DH is such a sap, and he falls for it every time.  No matter what I say or do, or don't do, he gets upset with me because I'm harsh on her, when she's a poor widow.  She phoned up last week saying that she wanted to come visit in a week's time, but wanted us to pay for half the air ticket.  DH initially said no, because we're not doing too well financially.  But, now he said yes, less than a week later.  I'm so irritated with both of them because she guilt's him with, "You know all my brothers and sisters died before they were 60.  Now I'm 61, so I could die anytime now."  On her last visit she even told him who the coffin bearers were to be.  She is a very impulsive woman and doesn't have a home of her own.  She flits between her DD's and a retirement home, miles away from each other.  She wastes her pension money on this unnecessary travel.  Then, when she wants to visit us, she comes with her hands out for money.  I'm sick of DH giving in to her and of her begging.  She'll be here in January at my expense, and I've already told DH that I'll be at work the entire visit.  I'm so tired of him believing her over me, when she has been proven to be a selfish, backstabbing, 2-faced user.

        Signed - Sick And Tired
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