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Worst gift:  My BIL's wife has struck again!  I am fed up with her!!  She likes to send gifts to one of my children and not the other.  She is bosom buddies with MIL and they team up and do it together.  She has done it for years with me, giving only to my DH and forgetting my birthday, even though I remember hers.  My DH encouraged me to keep giving, "You don't give to receive, do you? "  I'd had enough and I just decided not to give to them this year.  Of course, my DH did not want to comply.  He wanted to get brother a gift, so we went down as a family and mailed it, and he signed all of our names on the card.  BIL replied with a thank you card (first one ever).  He addressed it only to my DH and said, "Hope to see YOU soon."  On my DH's birthday a package came in the mail, of course, to my DH from my BIL's wife.  She even wrapped it.  We just got a package in the mail yesterday from BIL's wife.  It was addressed to my child, whose birthday is coming up.  I didn't give to nephew this year - really hard for me- but I didn't want to encourage gift trading with them anymore, since they forget my other child.  I opened the gift because SIL has a tendency to give inappropriate things.  She gave my one year old candy for her birthday.  Sure enough, there was a package for Christmas for each of my children.  I opened it up and it was filled with candy and toy razors.  It looked like trick or treat candy because it even had the little ghosts on the wrappers.  She knows that we don't do Halloween.  She also knows that I nurse my little ones and they don't eat candy.  Her child just turned two.  Am I just being a butt, or is it inappropriate to give toddlers candy without asking parents first?  I would never do that to her.  We don't give our children candy for holidays, as they are both too little.  I feel like boxing the candy up, addressing it to my BIL's wife, and telling her to please quit sending our family gifts.  I would like to ask her if her DH knows that she leaves his name off of all of the packages, and that they are all addressed from her.  My MIL forgot our anniversary again, too.  Their anniversary is this week.  I just sent a card.  This is the first time that I have only given a card.  I always remember their dates and have given them gifts for over ten years, even when they forget.  Not anymore!!  I am done.  I still gave a card, I couldn't just not acknowledge.  I know this is off the subject, but my BIL's wife flirts with my DH big time.  I wish I could just cut all contact off with them, period.

        Signed - My BIL's Wife Has Struck Again!!
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frequent fry her - luvingmom303 Frequent Fry Her TM. - luvingmom303, Posted: 25-DEC-06
My DH recently had an extended member of his family pass away.  It was no one he was close to, but he planned on attending the funeral out of respect.  However, MIL waited until only 3 hours before to call and let him know when the service was, as well as inform him that he needed to pick up SIL before coming out, and this is at least a 3 hour drive.  He told her that there was no way.  I was at work and he didn't have time to get our children ready with such short notice.  MIL went on a screaming tirade (her specialty), about how it was MY fault that he wouldn't be there for his family, because I won't allow him to go.  He asked how I could prevent him from going when neither of us knew when the funeral was, but logic does not apply to my darling MIL.

        Signed - Maybe If He Had ESP, He'd Have Been There
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Worst gift:  When DH and I found out that we were pregnant, my MIL called my mom and told her that if she threw me a baby shower and she invited his dad, no one else in his family would be there.  My mom simply said, "OK."  My MIL is still pissed that we invited his dad, and not any of "her" family.  She threw me her own shower, after her grandmother's shower, of course, and got me a Christmas sweater size 6 months for a baby born in January!  At 6 months it would be JULY, AND we live in a HOT state!  She bought it at a yard sale and it was worn, faded, and the collar was stretched out.  She paraded her sweater in front of all the guests so that they could all mention how wonderful it was.  She completely ignored all the other wonderful, nice new things that everyone else got me.  So, imagine my surprise when she informed me that she would be coming to my DD's 1st birthday, even if HE will be there.  It is at my mother's house.  I don't know if it will be big enough for them.  HE can behave himself.  It's her that causes all the problems.  She also bought a Halloween costume for my 10 month old DD, size 3 months.  Then she asked me if they fit!  I told her when she gave it to me that it wouldn't!

        Signed - Bag Lady
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