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frequent fry her - sickandtired, 3 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - sickandtired 3 of 4 /Posted: 3-JAN-07
My MIL is psychotic.  She and my FIL got divorced 25 years ago.  DH and I have been married for 3.5 years.  FIL was pretty much not involved in DH's life.  They really don't even know each other.  My DH, until lately, has been very bitter toward his father, and very hurt.  I even saw him (this is a hard-nosed, no-nonsense veteran of two wars and a police officer we're talking about here) cry when he talked about his father.  "Why doesn't my dad give a sh!t about me?  He didn't even call me when I got home from the war!"  It made me cry.  Whenever DH would be upset about things that happened in his combat experiences, MIL would say, "You have to overcome this and be the father that you never had.  Your father didn't care and didn't want a relationship with you.  I raised you by myself (she was actually only unmarried about 2 years), and I will hate your father until the day I die.  He abandoned you kids", etc.  I wanted to slap her then and say, "What does this have to do with Iraq or Kosovo, and why don't you stop kicking him while he's down?!?!?!?"  Anyway, in a recent blowup she said to him, "Your wife would love your dad more than she likes me."  I told her that she was a vindictive, manipulative b!tch, and how sick she must be to use 25 years of her son's personal anguish to drive a wedge between the two of us!!!!!!

        Signed - Trying To Drive A Wedge Between Us
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I've been married for 7 years and have always gotten along great with my ILs.  My MIL likes to pull guilt trips, but I've always been able to handle them.  She's very opinionated and can be overbearing, but I'm pretty easygoing and ignore her.  My own mom has recently been placed in a nursing home for dementia and my MIL is basically the only mother figure I still have.  She's very big on traditions and family, and I've encourage my DH to keep up those traditions with her, even at the expense of spending time with my own parents.  This past weekend my DH threw me a surprise 35th birthday party, which he had planned for over 10 months.  Imagine my surprise and hurt when my ILs decided 3 weeks ago to go away for the weekend, because they had a coupon for a hotel!  My DH is pissed, and I feel like it was a slap in the face!  They have never done anything like this before!  It came out of nowhere, and now I don't know what to do.  I feel like cutting them off forever.

        Signed - Surprised And Heartbroken
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Worst gift:  My EGMIL gave me a ceramic toilet brush one Christmas.  She said that it was because she thought it was cute, but told me that it was to keep my bathroom clean.  I'm fanatically clean, and she just happened to stop in one day 2 minutes after my DH had taken an extended hiatus in the ol' water closet, and I hadn't had the chance to remedy the situation.

        Signed - Fed-Up
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