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My first marriage broke up due to the meddling of my MIL and SIL.  Five years later I met someone and married again.  You guessed it, my NEW MIL and SIL took me on again!!  I learned something from the first marriage, though, that I'll share with you:  The females in your new family will ALWAYS take you on!!  In my first marriage I came out swinging to defend myself, hurt and angry.  In my second marriage, I (a) acknowledged that we are different people who will have to learn how to live with one another, and (b) did not respond to the first few (more than a few) problems.  By the time I went to my DH for help, my SIL's behavior was so blatant that he couldn't help but see it, and stepped in for me.  My ILs still drive me crazy, and are not considerate of me and my DD from my previous marriage.  But, there are more and more good moments.  And because I ignore so much rude treatment, whenever I draw a line in the sand, my DH stands on the side of it with me.

        Signed - Pick Your Battles
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This was my first Christmas for my DH and me in our new home.  My MIL showed up with the guests that she invited to her house to show off her "son's new house".  She then asked me where the food was, and expected me to serve all of her guests.  She walked into my house and never acknowledged me.  She then sat down and attempted to get me to serve her, while she offered no help!  All of her guests came in and walked all over my new house and left trash and cans all over it.  DH and I have been together for 11 years, and she has been he!! on wheels from day one.  But this was the last straw.  Oh, did I mention that her brother went into my brand new guest bathroom and smoked!!  They left, and stuck me with cleaning up!

        Signed - Fed Up!
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And then there was the cooking.  Yes, Evil Bitch From He!! can cook, and must be praised for it at every second spent at the dinner table.  We are not to mention that we eat the same things every time.  And I must hold back the stomach illness I get when eating over-spicy food, because her food is "simply the best" (her words), isn't it.  And god forbid I want to try a different dish every now and again.  But my absolute favorite was when my DH found out that I can bake, and rather well.  I had identified a certain cake, in particular, that he loved, and as it didn't take long to make, I'd whip it up on the spot if he wanted it.  The result - I was actually FORBIDDEN (again, her word) from baking, because it was unhealthy and making my DH put on weight.  Yes, my baking made my DH fat and unhealthy.  It had nothing to do with the second and third portions that she would dish out for him and put in front of him, despite his protests.  It wasn't the stress and anxiety of having to live with an impossible woman who was giving him high blood pressure before he was 30.  Although, according to her that was my fault, too.  The fact that he had been taking medication for both of those problems before he and I even met was completely disregarded.  One time when we were all (yes, the outlaws included) at my parent's house in the lead up to my sister's wedding (we had all come back to the house from a pre-wedding party around midnight) MIL had my 75+ year old GM prepare food for my DH, who had, incidentally, gone to bed and didn't want anything to eat.  Then, she presented it on a plate and with a warm cup of milk (which he also was not allowed to drink due to asthma problems) and had me take it to him while he was trying to sleep.  This despite my trying to reason with her several times that he's not allowed to drink milk, had just had dinner, and wanted to go to sleep!!  Silly old cow.  So, I took the food to him and when he said that he didn't want it, I told him that he could tell his mother himself, since she wasn't listening to me.  He didn't tell her so, but he did go and put the plate of food and cup of milk back in the kitchen, untouched, in front of her.  I think that this was the one and only time that he did anything like that.  A few months later we split up because of his mother.

        Signed - Anyone Know A Cheap Hit Man?!
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