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My poor pitiful MIL came to my DD's first birthday party.  The next day she called and boo hooed to DH about there not being a picture of HER in MY scrapbook that I had let the guests look at to see her first year.  I guess she missed the part about it being MY scrapbook.  She then cried because my parents had a picture of themselves with DD on their table in the living room.  She never said anything about wanting a picture with DD until now.  Now she HAS to have one.  Cow.  I so hate her.

        Signed - Bag Lady
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At my then future SILs wedding 8 years ago, I was not included in any family portraits.  My DF was a groomsman, and instead of having me stand with him in the photos, they chose his best friend.  Six weeks later at our wedding she showed up with an album full of her wedding photos to show guests who had not been able to attend her wedding.  Also, her DH could not attend my wedding due to work, so she had my DH's former crush sit next to her in the front row.  This young lady is his best friend's sister, and only invited as an afterthought.  Also, the ex-crush held her screaming 1 year old child on her lap.  We could barely hear the minister.  I was very hurt by her actions, but nobody seemed to notice or care.  Years later she seems to have accepted me, but I don't think I will ever forget how she tried to ruin my big day.

        Signed - Nobody Noticed
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This is my first visit to this site, and want to say how wonderful it is!  I have been married for 15 years now, and I actually have a SMIL story.  My FIL is great, but he is remarried.  At first I thought the SMIL was pretty nice.  I forgot to mention that she is very religious, as well.  Anyway, lately things have not been that great.  The first problem I encountered with the SMIL was baby-sitting.  She wanted to baby-sit my children so badly while both DH and I work.  Fine.  My kids were all for it because they liked her so much.  Well, all of a sudden my kids didn't want to go.  I couldn't figure this out.  One weekend when I worked 7 days (a Sunday and grave yard shift), my middle son woke me up crying.  DS walked home when he was supposed to be at the store because he didn't want to go to church.  While I was sleeping, she came in my house, grabbed my son by his arm and yanked his hair because he refused to go to church.  I am not one who makes my kids go to church, and she knew this.  She then called me complaining about it and expected him to do work around her house to make up for that as a punishment.  I refused it, of course.  Ever since that incident things have been sour.  Instead of my kids going to her house to be baby-sat, she came to my house.  I came to find out that she was leaving in the middle of the night to go home and go to bed while my kids were alone!  Of course I said something to her, but she insisted that my kids were old enough to be alone at that time.  At the time my kids were younger than 14 years old (all a year and a half apart).  I found another baby-sitter.  Then there was a family reunion on DH's side of the family.  We called SMIL to find out what she wanted us to bring, since she was hosting this.  She said, "Just bring yourselves.  There will be plenty, since you and DH both work graveyard."  So, we did that.  We got there and right away she asked what we had brought.  I told her, "Nothing, because you said to just bring ourselves."  She screamed in front of DH's whole family, "YOU NEVER BRING ANYTHING!"  I got in her face.  DH knew that I was going to snap, and said to her, "I DON'T WANT YOUR FOOD.  I WILL EAT IN THE AMUSEMENT PARK!"  We left to enjoy ourselves at the amusement park.  Recently, we attended SIL's step DD's birthday party.  Everything was fine until SMIL started complaining about my boys' hair.  She said that they needed hair cuts.  They are teens, and I told her, "When they want one, they can get one."  She stated that I am the parent, and I ought to make them.  I told her that they are my kids, let them alone.  Then she told me that I need to make my kids go to church all the time.  I am not a church person, and I always taught my kids that you don't have to sit in a church to be a believer, and it is their choice.  She didn't like me telling them that, but that is MY BELIEF.  They made their choices not to sit in a church.  My DH has always been treated differently than his sisters.  I get so sick of that, too.  The ILs paid for their weddings and everything else.  If they need something, they are always there for them.  I love my FIL, but it's the other half that I am not liking.  I avoid these people as much as possible, and now my kids are all seeing what I have seen for years.  She claims that she is religious, but to me she isn't being very religious.  She judges people all the time in sarcastic ways, especially my DH and me.  My FIL pretty much stays out of it.  I don't blame him.  I don't need advice, but I just wanted to share my story.

        Signed - DIL With SMIL From He!!
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