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When I was growing up, my GM was my world.  She was my baby-sitter every day.  However, once my youngest cousin was born, the only other girl, to my GM's favorite son, I was tossed aside.  It hurts.  My GM has not been to any of my DD's events.  She did not come to her shower, and now my GM has said that she will not be coming to her birthday party.  Her first birthday party!  My GM lives NEXT door to my parents, where the party will be.  She cannot walk across a driveway for her GD or GGD, but she will drive to another state to see my cousin.  How sad is that?  I am the one throwing the party, and she kept telling me on the phone, "I hope your parents won't be mad at me for not coming."

        Signed - Tossed Aside
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My MIL is certifiable.  For my first story, I would like to submit the most recent stunt she pulled.  To be fair, I will put them all in one story, even though they could be split up to make a few more.  DS's first birthday was a few days ago.  We had decided a long time ago to not do anything big for it, just DH, DS and me, along with some cake and ice cream.  I made cupcakes and DS loved them.  Alas, Thursday we got a phone call from my MIL wanting to know what we were planning on doing for his birthday.  A day late and a dollar short, but that is generally her game.  Since she "wanted" to do something for DS and spend that day with him, DH suggested that they (FIL, MIL and SIL - 19 years old and still living at home) come over for dinner this coming Wednesday to celebrate his Baptism Day.  We were already planning on having his Godmother over anyway, so this would work out just fine.  MIL then tried to suggest that we invite the other "children" over (her kids are all out of the house, except for youngest SIL).  Mainly she wanted newly sprung jailbird BIL (DH's youngest brother) to come too.  DH said, "That isn't going to be possible."  Sounds a little harsh, right?  Wrong. BIL is a registered sex offender and per his parole, he isn't allowed to be around children.  MIL then went on to say that we could "sneak" him in.  How will we ever sneak him past ME, the one who WILL call the police the next time I see him violating his parole?  DH doesn't want him here, either.  And DS's Godmother is the one who FIL has "accused" of calling the police any time BIL has been "reprimanded" by his PO for violating his parole.  How FIL came to this conclusion, I will never know.  After being shot down on that idea, MIL then proceeded to tell us that we will be hindering our son's ability to learn by not allowing him to have toys.  Oh, we let him have toys, our living room is a mine zone most of the time.  We just would rather he not have plastic toys that make noise.  She then offered, graciously, after DH drilled this into her head, to "pass the information along to the rest of the family".  Uh, we have passed that bit along since DS was born.  Everyone gets it, except for her.

        Signed - Living In Her Own Little World
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Worst gift:  My MIL and FIL are two of the most selfish, mean people I know.  I was always raised to honor those close to us by choosing a thoughtful, tasteful gift for birthdays, holidays, weddings, etc.  What a shock I've had getting to know the ILs!  When our DD was born (first grandchild on both sides), we were lucky to receive many well wishes, cards and gifts from family, friends, coworkers, even old college roommates.  One of our friends and my family even sent us flowers, which was appreciated after 53 hours of labor.  The ILs?  They stuck enough cash in a card for us to go out to a (cheap) dinner.  It turns out that my MIL told her side of the family not to buy us anything because my side of the family had already bought us enough gifts.  How would she know, when she lives in a different country?  For Christmas DH received a wooden puzzle that you'd give a ten year old.  I received one of the many old and unwanted scented body lotion and soap sets that MIL's been collecting over the years.  And DD?  A cheap, ugly outfit.  On sale.  Now, if the ILs were stuck for money, I'd feel sympathetic.  But MIL herself is an accomplished shopper, who wears brand names and looks down on people who wear "cheap" brands.  Finally, I told my DH that I would not do any shopping for them anymore.  I couldn't bear to buy them thoughtful gifts when all we received were re-gifts and assorted sales items.  The result?  MIL received no birthday present this year, and it's her own fault!

        Signed - They're Not Worth The Time We Spend On Them
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