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Worst gift:  OK, so she is not officially a MIL yet.  But I live with her son, and as such the arrangement seems rather permanent for the moment.  It all started with his birthday.  I was between jobs and wanted to buy my BF a nice, but practical gift.  So, I got him a vintage look leather wallet (I knew he liked it, as he had pointed it out in a brochure) which was stretching my budget a little, but I still got it for him.  He loved it.  I found out that 2 days later, when she took him out to lunch (expensive restaurant, of course, I wasn't invited), she presented him with a plethora of gifts.  They are rather well off, and the gifts included show tickets, aftershave, a whole jumble of assorted presents from the family, as well as the family cat (*dry retches* - give me a break!).  They also got him a wallet!  He told her, rather diplomatically (I hope!), that I had already bought him a wallet, and so he preferred to use mine.  I have no doubt that this would have put her nose out of joint, and so she said that she would give it to his father to use instead.  I had to have a chuckle - he favored GF's gift over mummy dearest's!  Anyhow, after feeling a little bit bad for say, 2 minutes, I got over it.  For Christmas BF, his sister, her BF and I were invited to a French restaurant close to their house (miles away from our place!).  She sung the chef's praises, etc., as if she is some food connoisseur (please!).  BTW, sister's BF and I found that we had a lot in common, including graduating the same year and both coming from working class suburbs neighboring each other.  After dinner both children were unashamedly presented with brand new digital cameras each in front of all the guests, and then given a bunch of wrapped gifts to take home for Christmas Day.  I had a small gift amongst my BF's lot, which, after opening his approximately $600 worth of presents, I found was, wait for it (*inserts long drum roll*) a SHOWER GEL and a CLEANSING POUF!  Wow!  I found myself wondering if it was some rejected gift that she didn't like.  I felt like saying, "Gee, you went all out for me, huh?"  Guess she thought that would tide such a no-hoper, working class simpleton like me over through the holidays.  I accepted it graciously in front of my BF, as I didn't want to hurt his feelings, and I have been using it like it's going out of fashion because at the least, it is a rather nice botanical aromatherapy one.  He he!  I vowed never to bother buying either IL a present, considering BF was ferried to a lavish lunch for MIL's birthday without even considering to invite me (I work a block away from BF).  I even went so far as to suggest that BF buy her a nice bunch of flowers, but he didn't, because apparently FIL had already bought MIL a present on behalf of the kids.  Is something wrong with this picture?  She is certainly not going out of her way to be congenial to me.  As far as I'm concerned, she can self-destruct in bitter, jealous snobby rage because I took her son away from the family nest.  I'm sorry that I'm not a daddy's girl who dresses and accessorizes the way they would like, but I am who her son picked, which says a lot about his family background!

        Signed - *Phew*
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Worst gift:  This is not a bad present per say, but it is about presents and Christmas.  My DH and I recently got married.  After we left his GM's house on Christmas Day, the GMIL asked if we had forgotten to give her her present.  Say what?!!?  It's CHRISTMAS for crying out loud.  The true spirit of Christmas is GIVING, and I feel that you should expect NOTHING in return.  The MIL called my DH a few days later to say that now that we're married, we're expected to get the GMIL a gift.  That's greedy and spiteful.  I will not spend a dime on her, though I know that my DH will cave in.  I told him to get them something from our local dollar store.  It's also our FIRST year living on our own.  Hello, bills?!?!?  We barely had enough to get gifts for each other.  The GMIL thinks that we're rolling in it, since my parents are wealthy.  I don't get any handouts from them anyway!  If she wants to spite us back by not giving us presents next year, then good.  I don't want their "charity" anyway.  You should never expect a gift.

        Signed - I Only See Them On Christmas, THANK GOD!
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Worst gift:  For an engagement present my FMIL gave me a vacuum cleaner.  After 2 years of marriage I finally got more than a card on my birthday.  She gave me a dust cloth to go with it.  My house is clean, but with 2 kids, a dog, and a hunting and fishing DH, I guess it is never up to her standards.  She also baked a chocolate cake (none of us like chocolate, and have told her that many times)  She says that the other GC like it, so that is all she bakes.  It was made with diet pudding, artificial sweetener, and non fat whipped topping.  I'm starting to get the message.

        Signed - Cleaning Lady
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