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frequent fry her - ButterflyMama, 3 of 4 needed Frequent Fry Her TM. - ButterflyMama, 3 of 4 needed/Posted: 20-JAN-07
My MIL always has to be the center of attention!  We moved 4 hours away, and now she calls ALL THE TIME with sob stories for DH.  The other day we got a message on the answering machine saying, "This might be the last time you can contact me"!  We thought that something serious was wrong, so DH called her and she said that she had to go to the hospital because she had low blood sugar and a migraine!  COME ON!  She just wants DH to feel bad for her!  When he talks to her on the phone, she says, "You never call anymore."  Then she gives long, dramatic pauses and says, "Are you mad at me?  I love you."  He tells her that he works 2 jobs, and he's sorry!  I just wish she could grow up!

        Signed - Annoyed!
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My DH of 22 years comes from a line of crazy women.  At the very least, they make me crazy.  His maternal GM controlled her DD (my MIL) and son by fostering a competition between them.  When she was with one, she would talk about the shining abilities of the other, and vice versa.  My MIL, consequently, adopted the same horrible habit with her two sons.  Although I believe that my DH is actually her favorite, she created enough shame in my BIL that I feel as if I've suffered for her sins.  My BIL married a very competitive woman, much like his mother, probably to fight fire with fire.  There is a fairly unspoken, but uncomfortable competition now between the two couples, as my MIL has continued the comparison game with the four of us.  What really disturbs me now is that the competitive environment has been passed on to our children, mostly to my DD and my BIL/SIL's DD (both 13).  My MIL is now fairly old and frail, and doesn't make the stinging comments quite as often, but she does love to let me know when the niece has accomplished something great, or when the BIL/SIL have purchased something expensive.  Added to the frustration is the idea that BIL/SIL are majorly into creating "perfect children" that they can show off.  I don't want my kids to be hurt , although I'll admit that they seem to handle it better than I do because they know how much their cousin suffers with her high-strung, controlling mother.  Mostly though, I don't want to deal with it anymore.  I'm very tired of HAVING to spend time with people whom I would not otherwise be with, knowing that I'll leave any gathering with them feeling awful.

        Signed - Sadlystuck
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Worst gift:  Tacky gifts from MIL:  Ten years ago I had just graduated with my MBA and was about to embark on a corporate career.  I had also just gotten engaged to my DH.  As a gift, my MIL gave me an apron.  Over the years her gifts have been insulting:  A dish rag, another apron, a cookbook (that's not so bad, but I don't cook), a dish to put scouring pads in the kitchen, a $10 subscription to a homemaking magazine, etc.  Ten years of tacky, inappropriate gifts that send a message to stay home, barefoot and pregnant.  Hello?  I more than double my DH's salary!

        Signed - Beotchy DIL
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