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frequent fry her - AWorldAwayFromNormal Frequent Fry Her TM. - AWorldAwayFromNormal/Posted: 5-JAN-08
I've just learned that MIL may be coming to visit in the spring.  And, I can't say no.  Here's why:  DH is in the military, and we're stationed overseas.  DH's uncle is also military.  He is stationed at a different base, but in the same country as us.  He's been here for 7 years.  He is planning to pay to have his mom fly out and visit (MIL is actually DH's GM).  Since they're only an hour away, yep, you guessed it, I'm stuck seeing her, too.  She wants to stay half the time with us.  Not gonna happen!  I will not let that holier-than-thou hag criticize every aspect of how I keep my home, like she did before we moved here.  You know what she said?  Here's a cut and paste from the email I received:
"iM SO GLAD I CAN FINAL SEE WEAR YOU LIVE!  iLL HELP YOU OUT DONT WORY.  i CA SHOW YOU ALL MY TRIKCS TO KEP THE HOUSE CLEAN LIKE [DH] LIKES IT!  aND i CAN TECHK YOU [DH]S FAVRITE FOOD SO YOU CAN KEEP HIM HAPPY!  yOU WANT MY GRANDSON TO BE HAPPY RIGHTE?  IM BRINGING SME EXTRA STUFF TO SOME LITTLE THINGS TO MAKE THE PLACE LOOK NICRE. tHERES A PAINTING aUNT m_____ IS SENDING THAT WILL GO PREFECLY WITH THE COLORS i PICKED OUT!!"
Oh my lord, please tell me it's a dream!  My only comfort is DH's uncle's wife.  She's treated just as badly by that woman as I am.  We're seriously considering running away for the month and letting the boys entertain themselves.  After all, she doesn't really want to see us.

        Signed - We're Not Really Family, You Know
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frequent fry her - AWorldAwayFromNormal Frequent Fry Her TM. - AWorldAwayFromNormal/Posted: 5-JAN-08
DH was raised from the age of 10 by his GM.  She is whom I refer to as MIL.  I have never met his biological mother (who I'll call BMIL from now on), and probably never will.  She was (is) a drug user and was very abusive and neglectful.  From the moment of conception on, the only good thing she has done for DH and his siblings was to carry them to term.  Not that she treated them well as fetuses, either, doing drugs and drinking alcohol the whole time.  It's literally a miracle that those kids survived long enough to be taken away from her.  Anyway, BMIL has only hurt my DH over and over.  DH stated years ago, while still living with MIL, that he no longer wished to have any contact with BMIL.  He no longer went on family trips to visit her.  When she came to visit them, he'd find a friend to stay with.  He threw away any mail, deleted any emails, and refused to return her phone calls.  She was a toxic influence on his life, and he didn't want to deal with it anymore.  Well, MIL KNOWS, and has known for years that DH doesn't want to talk to BMIL and that he doesn't want her to have our phone number or address.  So, on Christmas morning we woke up to a ringing phone.  DH answered the phone, and it was BMIL.  MIL had told her that DH was just desperate to wish her a Merry Christmas, and gave her our number.  DH, nice guy that he is, didn't tell off BMIL because, for once, she didn't technically do anything wrong.  But, it completely ruined Christmas for him.  He spent the whole day lost in his own awful childhood memories of Christmases where he was beaten almost to death by BMIL's boyfriend, or times when he didn't eat the whole week.  That's what he spent Christmas thinking about because MIL was evil enough to give that woman our number.

        Signed - Hurting For My Hubby's Sake
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Worst gift:  1.  Cheese grinder (the old-fashioned one).
2.  Lots of ugly, hand knit socks -all pale blue.
3.  Lots of shoe-slippers (sexy!).
4.  Hand-operated mixer (18th c. style).

        Signed - The List Goes On An On
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