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My BF and I had to move in with his mother to help us buy a house.  I moved in during the 3rd month of my pregnancy.  MIL is a penny pincher, to say the least.  Most of the time, she wouldn't turn the a/c on in 100 degree weather.  She would try to help out by cooking dinner, but I would have to clean up all the mess from everyone who ate, with no help from anyone.  Also, she would use every pot and dish that she could, not letting me use her dishwasher.  Coming home from the hospital with a new baby was a joy.  But, my own mother, who came to visit, was shocked to see that, after I was home for 2 days, MIL had left the vacuum out for me to use, while she went around shopping and to the spa for herself!  She is a religious woman, and is constantly pushing religion on us all the time.  She makes us pray together before dinner, talking to me about changing religions (it takes a year to do that).  She leaves her mess all the time for me to clean.  She constantly barks orders at me, one after another, making me run up and down the stairs and all around the house!  I'm almost to the breaking point.  I realize how much of a beautiful lady my mother is.  I'm going through MIL he!!.  I rented the "Monster-In-Law" movie and watched it with her, but . .

        Signed - She Didn't Get The Point!
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Worst gift:  MIL always gets me, my DH, and my one year old, stuff from the thrift store.  Thrift stores are not my style, and we have explained this to her over the years, to a point where a fight almost happened because of it.  I would rather have nothing, than something from a thrift store.  I am not a snotty person.  I would rather have something for a dollar, knowing that it was new.  She acts as if there is something wrong with me because of this.  The BF, who is mooching off of her, doesn't help out, either.  He is the thrift store influence.  This year, I caught her in a lie.  She purchased a gift for my one year old from the thrift store.  It was one of those adorable mini block cubes that she purchased for $8.  It didn't even come in a box.  She must really think that everyone is dumb and won't notice.  She told me that she purchased it on line, but when she was approached as to where a missing part of it was, she stated that it was lost.  Mind you, when DH brought this thing home, I immediately threw it out.  I feel like saying something to her, but I feel like it would do no good anyway, and I should just throw out everything that she gives me.  When I tell her that I do not need or want anything, . . .

        Signed - She Gives Me Stuff Anyway
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Worst gift:  How about a book for Christmas called "HOUSEWIVES ON TOP"?  Basically, it is about a woman who does not have to work because her DH earns so much.  I am a SAHM of 2.  I keep an organized house and love my role, so does DH.  I also do work from home to help him in his business.  Along with this book was another one about a murder, with a picture of a blood stain on the cover.  MIL knows that I enjoy reading, but hate gore.  Finally, the third gift was a pair of pink rubber gloves in a clear box.  One finger had a fake diamond ring on it.  That was this Christmas.  I am too upset to say more.  This is from a fit, active, intelligent woman who wants for nothing and is, in fact, quite spoiled (and has been all her life).  I am also sorry to say that it has been the straw that broke the camel's back, and I have decided that I am finished with her until I get a full apology, etc.  So is DH.  We are fortunate to have a fantastic relationship and are also best friends.  It is so sad, but I cannot take it anymore.  I have always eaten humble pie when she has hurt me, as I like to keep the peace within families.  This is just too much for me to handle now, so DH has agreed to cut ties for at least the considerable future.  I am sure that this is the right thing to do.  I would like to know if you all, who have similar problems (I assume you have or you wouldn't be on this site), agree about the horrible nature of the 3 gifts I received this Christmas?

        Signed - Long Suffering
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