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frequent fry her - Fightingalosingbattle Frequent Fry Her TM - Fightingalosingbattle, 1 of 4 needed /Posted: 22-JAN-08
During my pregnancy with our first child, MIL and FIL were helping us financially so that we could pay for the medical expenses.  The day that we brought our newborn home, MIL threatened to quit helping financially if we didn't bring the baby over to see her.  We invited her over, explaining that the doctor told me not to go anywhere for a few days.  She refused.  She then suggested that my DH bring the baby over without me!  Finally, we relented and went over.  The next day I had some complications.

        Signed - We Relented
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frequent fry her - Fightingalosingbattle Frequent Fry Her TM - Fightingalosingbattle, 2 of 4 needed /Posted: 22-JAN-08
Last summer, we were looking to get some electrical work done.  The electrician we chose was one whom my MIL used frequently (and my DH went to high school with him).  One night, without provocation, he showed up on my doorstep.  I had just gotten off the phone with my MIL minutes before.  He didn't have any job to do, and it was 8 pm.  He claimed that he dropped by just to visit, since he had just left my MIL's house.  Weird.  Not wanting to be rude, I invited him in to see what he wanted.  He started asking about what I do on weekend nights; if I ever go out, if my DH ever takes me out, etc.  Then, he suggested that some night he would come by and take me out.  I asked him if he thought his wife would be ok with that, and he said, "Sure."  Then, I said that my DH would not approve, and he said, "Well, that's too bad, we could have fun."  Finding this odd, I sent him away and called DH to tell him what had happened.  DH thought that it was strange, too.  A few days later, MIL called DH and said, "I just called the house and your wife didn't answer.  I think she's out with a guy."  What in the world would make her think that?  Hmm.

        Signed - What In The World
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I have been married for almost 14 years, and we've been together for 17.  We have a 13 year old and a 9 year old.  For most of our life together, we have lived 300 miles away from my ILs.  Never did they attempt to come visit us or communicate with the kids.  We moved "home" (3 miles away) a year ago, and it has been horrible since.  Throughout our relationship, my MIL has always tried to break us up.  She says things like, "If you and DH get divorced, you're the one who has to move cuz it's his house, not yours."  I don't work outside the home.  Any time something dramatic happens in our life, she is quick to put the blame on me.  I have kept a blog for years to voice my feelings (never have I been cruel to her on it, just expressing my hurt feelings over things).  She constantly reads it and then calls my DH and whines and cries to him about it.  DH and I got into a big fight in September, and I asked him to leave for a couple of days.  While he was at his parents' house, MIL consistently tried to push him to file for divorce, custody of the kids, and to force me to move out of our house.  She even went as far as calling an attorney.  They have a lot of money, and she is constantly holding his "inheritance" over his head.  She has threatened to write him out of the will if he doesn't do what she wants him to do.  At one point, she even said that she would write him out of it, and cast us all out of the family (kids included) if he didn't divorce me.  For 12 years I grinned and bared it.  I never voiced my opinion about her, never called her on her actions, and never spoke to my DH about it.  Last Thanksgiving, we were lied to.  They told us that they weren't doing anything for the day, and they didn't want to get together.  They've never been big on holidays.  Later, we found out that they and his sister had gotten together for a traditional dinner and movies.  They did the same thing to us on Christmas and New Years.  Our kids worked hard hand-painting ornaments for them all for Christmas, and none of them even said, "Thank you," to the kids.  Our kids are the only blood-related grandchildren in this family.  We are now selling our house and heading back to where we were for 10 years.  And, all she could say was, "Well, obviously you have chosen her over your inheritance."  DH said, "I chose her and our children a long time ago.  And as far as the inheritance goes, DONATE IT TO CHARITY!"  This made me smile!  He has never stepped up for me before.

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