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January 25, 2008
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My God.  These MIL stories are a breath of fresh air!  I thought my situation with my MIL was one of a kind.  DW and I are going on a year of marriage.  Her mother controlled every aspect of our wedding.  I would try to convince DW that we need to make decisions about "our" wedding, but once her mother got control over her, it was pointless.  Her mother even picked out DW's wedding dress without us knowing.  I knew DW did not like the dress.  She is not able to stand up and tell her mother what she likes or wants.  I kicked and screamed to try to convince her of the importance of her (of us) being able to "take a stand" and "take control" of her life.  This was our wedding, and she (we) had every right to pick out our wedding clothes, for crying out loud.  It was so exhausting.  DW did finally realize that she should at least get to pick out her dress.  However, everything else was just as her mother wanted it.  I figured that once the wedding was over, everything would be better.  We would have our own life.  NOT!  DW and her mother (and father) own a business together.  They control her to a point where it seems that DW and I do not even have a life.  To make matters more complicated, we now have a son.  She takes our son with her to work every day.  It is getting to a point where I have no say in how we raise our son.  Her mother is spoiling him and thinks that she is the one raising him.  I kick and scream trying to convince DW that we MUST take a stand and that her domineering mother is ruining our marriage, but it only seems to make matters worse.  If something does not change soon, our marriage may be done.

        Signed - No Longer Alone
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SIL called me.  No "hello", no "how are you doing?"  Her opener was, "I've always hated your DH for stealing my childhood."  WHAT?  She went on to explain that because their parents were not taking care of DH, she had to drop out of college to care for him herself, and she resents him for it.  Here are the problems with this story:  1)  College is not "childhood".  Childhood is when you are a child.  You go to college as an adult.  2)  She dropped out of college because she got pregnant.  3)  DH was sixteen years old at the time, so he really didn't need to be taken care of, nor did anyone ask her to quit and care for him.  4)  DH didn't even know his sister had dropped out, because she lied to everyone and said she was still going for over a year after she dropped out.  She never even came back home!

        Signed - At Least She Got Her Honorary Doctorate In Crazy
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Worst gift:  For Xmas this year I received old copies of a magazine that MIL has a subscription to.  USED MAGAZINES!!!  I guess I should be happy I got the full set.

        Signed - USED MAGAZINES!!!
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