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frequent fry her - MsPen Frequent Fry Her TM - MsPen, 4 of 4 needed /Posted: 29-JAN-08
Every year, Christmas has to be some kind of drama surrounding SIL's family.  MIL always insists on having the whole family come for Christmas, which usually involves DH and I rearranging our schedules, and, in many cases, taking time off of work to achieve this.  Even after all the trouble we go to, SIL rarely shows up.  We are always told that Christmas will be on a certain day, and if we cannot make it on that certain day, we will just have to miss it.  I've always figured that this means that SIL is more important than DH to MIL.  This year, SIL and Uncle can make it on a certain day, but DH works.  MIL said, "That's okay, you can come and bring my GS."  Great, but what about her son?  I called SIL, who said that the certain day MIL picked doesn't work for her, either.  I confronted MIL about it.  She said that we can change it to the date that works for both of us.  Cut to a few weeks later.  MIL was at my house, sitting on my couch, and said, "We're changing Christmas back, because Uncle can't make it on the new date."  She told us that the change was at the request of SIL, who can't make it on the new date anymore, and that it is the only date SIL and Uncle can both make it.  It's too bad that DH can't be there, and they'll have to get together after the New Year.  I lost my MIND.  I have never been so enraged in my life!  If SIL can't make it, heaven and earth must move.  But, the one year that it's impossible for us to juggle our schedule, we're told it's too bad?  Furthermore, since when is Uncle more important to her than her SON?  That is the most messed up thing I've ever heard.  The year before, he didn't even show up to Christmas!  In the end, the date was changed.  MIL called numerous times to accuse us of always skipping out on family gatherings (when it is her DD who does this consistently) and to warn us that we'd "better not cancel" on her.  She told us that, thanks to our unreasonableness, she will never do Christmas ever again.  Fine with me, because after the date was changed to a mutually agreed upon one (and we found out that no one was able to make it to the date MIL insisted we have!), SIL didn't even bother coming!

        Signed - Christmas Is A Time For Giving - Me A Headache
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I was 17 years old and we were engaged.  We never got married.  That's how messed up this story is.  On May 22 (and I was getting married on July 29 2007) DF's mother got him drunk and told him to break up with me.  So, he did.  Right afterwards, she reached across the table, grabbed my hand, and ripped my engagement ring off.  She pawned it the next day, and my ex-DF told me that we'd always be friends and that he'd always love me.  We haven't talked since, and now he's engaged again.  He's getting married on Valentine's Day

        Signed - So, He Did
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Worst gift:  DH and I have been together (dating/married) for 10 years.  Every year, since we started dating, I received a $100 check from the MIL.  Two years ago, we decided to take a stand over the "holiday scheduling".  I, like all of you, am sure that I have plenty of stories to write a book on that alone.  That year, when my birthday came around, I received a card, a pair of inexpensive flip flops, and a used bottle of sun screen.  After the he!!ish night was over, DH was in shock.  Not that I am expecting $100 each birthday, but a used bottle of sun screen?  He must have said something, because the next day, in our front door was a $50 check, not even in an envelope.

        Signed - DIL of a Hopelessly Tacky MIL
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