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My MIL is way too self-centered for me to either like or respect her.  I've been married for over 6 years, and have not formed anything but a cordial relationship with the MIL.  MIL and FIL are divorced.  FIL has gotten married again, but MIL hasn't.  She had two brief affairs, but she is not in a relationship, which, again, I am not too fond of, because her partner is still married and living with his wife.  This is more or less like an open secret that everyone is aware of, but chooses to ignore.  MIL always wants something or the other.  She gets DH to buy her stuff, though she is employed.  DH has bought everything in the house that she stays in, including the house itself.  I am so bored with her.  I call her once in a month, as a courtesy, and all that she can talk about is herself.  She's written an article.  She's attended a meeting.  She did this and that, and blah and blah.  In all these years, she might have called me a couple of times, and that was also to let me know about something that happened in her life.  Not once did she ask if I was well or what was happening with my life.  DH is too blind to see this.  We've had our fights over her and her materialistic ways, about him spending our savings to buy her stuff.  She has a house bought for her by my DH.  We live in a rented place.  I've now accepted that its not going to change, and the only way I can solve this is to walk out of my marriage.  I love my DH, but sometimes I don't like him.  Some days I am not happy at all.  Can anyone suggest some solution?

        Signed - Some Days I Am Not Happy At All
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What do I do?  We live over 1,000 miles away from the ILs.  My kids never get calls on their birthdays.  We call MIL and FIL on their birthdays.  I don't understand why, when they live so far away, they don't want to talk to their grandkids (they have others who live close by).  DH says to let it be.  Sometimes their birthday cards (they also send $20) get here on time, sometimes not.  They complain about not being close, but then they pass up this opportunity to talk to them.

        Signed - I Give Up - They Are Just Strange
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Worst gift:  Every year, for Xmas, I got money from the MIL.  But, this year I got two bags that are fit for a ten year old (and I'm 27) and a pill box (I don't even take any pills).  I am having my first child in 3 weeks, and all MIL has bought is pound shop stuff.  Not that she can't afford it, as they have loads of money.  They wanted a GD, and I'm having a boy.

        Signed - Ha Ha.
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