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I was at my MIL's house with DH one Sunday morning after we had gotten engaged.  Our wedding was in 2 months.  MIL was clipping coupons and handed me a coupon for a yeast infection treatment cream, saying that I would need that now that I was getting married.  I still haven't figured out (after 12 years) why she expected me to get yeast infections because I was married.

        Signed - HUHHH???
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My step-MIL is verbally and emotionally abusive.  She is also on medication for depression and has, on several occasions, told me about the time she convinced her ex-DH (# 2, FIL is # 3) to stop stalking her and abusing her.  She did this by telling him that if he came near her again or threatened her again, she would kill his two children and then herself, in order to keep him from getting them after her death.  I have some sympathy for her - she's had a hard life.  But she is also very damaging to those around her, and I am afraid of a person willing to murder her children, regardless of the cause.  My point for relating all this?  I won't let her baby-sit my infant son.  I am afraid that she will fight with my FIL in front of him (a common occurrence), or neglect to follow the instructions we give her about my son's care (she's not what you might call a LISTENER).  Or, I don't know, I just have a nervous, yucky feeling about abandoning my son to her.  So, now there's a huge family fight going on about our choice not to leave our son with her.  Everyone is angry, saying, "Well, she was good enough to raise [DH], why isn't she good enough for your son?"  DH is in counseling trying to deal with the emotional damage she did to him growing up.  Or, "What do you think she's going to do?  She's not going to hurt a baby!  It's outrageous that you would suggest she will hurt a baby!"  We haven't said that she will hurt our baby.  We HAVE stated that we don't trust her enough to leave our son with her, because she won't listen to our concerns.  This was after we were forced to explain why we weren't asking her to baby-sit.  This is made even more complicated by the fact that she's a daycare worker.  I don't know what to do.  I know that DH needs his family, but I won't let her use my son as a pawn to make herself happy.  DH also agrees with me on this, but he's suffering horribly for it.  His whole family, father, brothers and sisters, is mad at him.

        Signed - Heartsick Mother
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Worst gift:  My ex-MIL asked what I would like for Christmas.  I told her that I'd like a crock pot.  On Christmas morning, we were all gathered around the tree.  She handed me my gift.  It was indeed a crock pot ---- box!!!!!!!  Inside were patches for the knees of our son's pants and a plastic shower cap!!!!  I swear that this is true.  Her son didn't say a word to his dear mother.  That is one of the reasons . . .

        Signed - She Is My Ex-MIL
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