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I have many, many different stories, but for now I'll just stick with these.  For my baby shower my mom got a cake made with DH and my baby pictures on it, one of each.  She asked my MIL to take a baby picture of my DH to the cake lady.  When my mom picked up the cake, there were two huge pictures of DH, my picture was off in the corner of the cake!!  My mom was furious!  She told the cake lady, "This is NOT what I ordered.  I'm paying for this.  I want it remade NOW!"  The cake lady said to my mom, "Yeah, the lady who brought the baby pictures in of the boy was laughing and said that you were going to be mad."  She purposely did that!!!!  We got her back by having the cake corrected.  She saw it at the shower, but did not say a word about it!  This is an ongoing thing with her.  DH is her only child, so it's even worse.  She's so obsessed with him it's not funny.  We live in another state, so last year when she came to visit, she made breakfast for everyone.  She made hers and my DH's plates, and told everyone else to make their own!  Ruuuuude!!  Oh, before we got our mail forwarded to our new house, she got a hold of our bank statements and was opening them and taping them back together!!  Nosey!!!  Yesterday, we got a birthday package for my DH in the mail from MIL.  Inside was a framed picture of her, her DH (they are getting a divorce right now) and my DH.  She wants me to put that picture up in my house of "her family".  Funny thing is, when that picture was taken, we also had a picture of them with my DD and me.  Why didn't she frame that one, since it's MY home that she wanted to put it in?!!  Needless to say, I'm not putting it up!  She's very jealous that her son is now married with a child, and she won't get over it!  I've talked to her about it, and everything was SUPPOSED to change, but she's continuing.  It sickens me, really!

        Signed - I Have A True Monster-In-Law!
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I have been looking for an outlet for my frustrations for years (38 to be exact).  Now I have found this site.  I have kissed my MIL's butt all these years.  My kids have played second fiddle to her DDs' children all these years.  My kids are all married now, with children whom she does not even feel obligated to come see.  The two babies are 2 and 2 ½, and in two years they have seen her may 6 times.  She lives three miles from them.  What kind of person does that make her?  I have written letters to her telling her how hurt my kids are, and indicating that she is also hurting her only son.  Evidently, it does not matter.  I used to make sure that I went to see her every Saturday, but now when I go, she seems to harbor so much resentment and jealousy.  She only upsets me when I leave.  Her GD, whom I referred to previously, is not married, but has four children.  I am not praising my kids, but they have good jobs and are all married and doing very well, but she gives them no credit at all.  It breaks my heart.  My parents died shortly after I got married.  My kids never saw their GP, and because of the way my MIL is, I sometimes feel that they have no GM.  Thanks for letting me find a place to express my frustration.  Maybe this will help lower my blood pressure.  I hope that if I ever become so self centered and uncaring about my children and grandchildren, someone steps up and reminds me of the past 38 years.

        Signed - Too Late To Help
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Worst gift:  Last year, MIL gave me nothing.  This year, she gave my DH $50, his brother $100, his brothers two ex's each got a $50 check.  I got a used crock pot that my SIL gave her last year for Christmas.  She then told me to lie to SIL if she came over and saw the crock pot, and tell her that I was borrowing it.  She lets us all know what or how much she is giving everyone else.  But, it was a great Christmas, because she was only here for 45 minutes!!!

        Signed - Enjoy Being My Kids Mom
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