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frequent fry her - IHateHer Frequent Fry Her TM - IHateHer, 4 of 4 needed /Posted: 20-MAR-08
Worst gift:  While I was pregnant with our DD (now 2 months old), MIL gave us a lot of hand-me-down clothes.  She would bring them to our house, give them to my DH when he visited GFIL, call my DH to come get them, etc., like they were going to catch her house afire if he didn't remove them promptly.  I swear, there was a bag of clothes every week for one month.  I'm not saying that I didn't appreciate the gifts, but a lot of them were stained, shrunk, holey, mismatched, and some were obviously boys clothes.  Oh, and they smelled funny.  But, she even told me that she got them from consignment shops AND yard sales.  I'm not knocking secondhand stuff, but you buy secondhand for your OWN kids.  You don't give used items as gifts!  If that wasn't enough, fast forward a few months.  When my DD was a couple of weeks old, she brought over yet another grocery sack full of old, faded clothes for our new baby (who, mind you, has oodles of clothes - too many).  We had told MIL that she did not need anymore clothes, and that we didn't need anything else for her.  DH even told her, "Supper would be nice."  Anyway, she told me that they were her friend's niece's clothes.  "The outfits are just precious, and she can't wear them.  I feel bad for the little girl.  Her mom is a crackhead."  WHAT?  You brought me clothes that have been in a crackhouse?  If I could remember which ones she brought, I'd donate or burn them.  I don't need contaminated stuff.

        Signed - Not A Crackhead
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frequent fry her - IHateHer Frequent Fry Her TM - IHateHer /Posted: 20-MAR-08
I recently posted (above) about the clothing that my MIL bought that came from a crackhead.  A couple of days ago she came over with another pile of clothes.  They were all mismatched.  A few minutes after she got here, she mentioned that she and her friend went shopping at a place here for poor people to go get clothes for either free or close to free.  It is charity - not like a thrift store, either.  It is for people who cannot afford anything, and she went "shopping" there.  *Rolls eyes*.

        Signed - That Cheapo
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frequent fry her - IHateHer Frequent Fry Her TM - IHateHer /Posted: 20-MAR-08
Worst gift:  I don't know if this one counts as a "worst gift" or just a story.  It isn't really a big, big deal, but I just read something that brought it to mind.  When we were about 5 months along, we decided that we were going to use cloth diapers.  We made up our minds, then told MIL.  She looked like I'd hit her with a brick.  Her jaw literally dropped.  But, she wanted to give me a diaper and bath shower.  Just like she gave me that wedding shower two years prior.  *Sarcasm*.  She declared, "I'll give you diapers anyway.  You won't stick with the cloth."  She never did give me that shower. *Surprise*.  But, I did receive a few packs from different family members, coworkers, etc.  My little one got here, and the cloth was going fine.  But, she popped up with some disposables.  We told her that the cloth was still working perfectly, but she got them anyway.  And, a couple of weeks later, she gave us more.  I don't want to sound like an ingrate, but we TOLD her that we did NOT need disposable diapers.  If she wanted to help new parents, she could have picked up a pizza for much less money.  After all, we spent a LOT (I mean a $LOT$) of money up front on really great diapers.  We want to use them to the max.  And, she also signed herself up for a "Welcome Additions" package from a formula company, AND gave me a coupon for formula - and we are exclusively breastfeeding.  DD has never had formula.  Why buy the milk when you got the cow at home?

        Signed - Guess I'm Just An Ingrate
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