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Mother-In-Law Mall
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Mother-In-Law Stories
December 15, 2009
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MIL has a huge personal
issue with me. Everything I say or do is wrong. Her DS, on the
other hand, can do no wrong. For example, my family had a surprise
baby shower for me. She did not receive an invitation, nor did
her mother. Her son did not want his mother or grandmother to come
because they are loud, rude and obnoxious. He lied and told them
that there was no party. Then he told them the truth. My evil
MIL blamed it all on me, saying that I lied and that I did not want
them there. Everything I do in this relationship is for my BF.
But, my MIL insists that I'm fake, that I lie, and that I'm basically
a horrible person. When she comes to stay with us, she always starts
fights with me. The last time, I stayed in my room, while she controlled
my household. This time, when she came to stay, we got into a huge
fight once again. I told her my feelings, instead of backing down.
After the fight, she came and gave me a kiss on my forehead. She
said, "See, I'm glad we can tell family how we feel."
She says horrible things to me, when her DS is not around. Then,
when I tell him, he does not believe me, and she denies it. She
talks bad about me to everyone and anyone she can, and denies it
to my face. She also does weird things with her son. She allows
him to sleep in bed with her. She rubs his chest in the morning
to wake him, in front of me, I might add. She's absolutely obsessed
with her son. He can do no wrong. His sister moved away because
of her mother's craziness. Then, sadly, she died in a car accident.
God bless her soul. BF's brother joined the army to get away from
her. She is sick. I am so confused as to what to do with her.
The baby shower incident caused so much drama that the grandmother
and grandfather won't come to the hospital. They think I talk about
them, calling their household dirty, and whatever other lies MIL
makes up. Here's the problem. I told BF that I did not want his
mother to stay overnight with us anymore. He agreed, because she
is coming to stay with us when my DD is born. Now, he and his mother
made up and he is asking me why she can't stay. I'm terrified.
If this does not stop, I will have to leave. I'm having a DD with
this man, and he chooses his mother over me. He pays for everything
when she comes for weeks at time. He always takes her side, and
pretends that I'm the crazy one. It's sad, but I'm bringing another
life into this world. I refuse to let her be corrupted by MIL and
their sick relationship. I also forgot to mention that she is delusional.
She tells me that god speaks to her and that she enters time tunnels
when there are emergencies in the family. God drips blood onto
her windshield and makes her go through time tunnels to get there
in five minutes, instead of two hours. I'm terrified to have this
woman around my child. What should I do? She is destroying my
relationship with BF, my life and my integrity. She is making me
go crazy. I guess she is doing her job as a Monster-In-Law! My
baby is being induced soon. Please, I NEED HELP!!!!
Signed - Terrified
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I am headed out later
this month to see DH's family and introduce them to our new addition.
DH is deployed, and his grandparents are in poor health. I want
to make sure they get chance to see their great-grandson. We are
not sure if they will make it until DH gets home. DH's aunt and
my MIL also live in town, along with FIL and Step-MIL. I get along
great with my FIL and Step-MIL, but the rest I can do without.
After some recent nasty emails from DH's aunt, I decided that it
would be best not to see her without DH. I sent an email, BCC to
everyone, with my itinerary for my visit later this month. I explained
to them that, due to some recent emails, I will not be seeing DH's
aunt. I said that I would appreciate it if people would respect
my decision. I explained that I had not sent her the email, so
she did not have the itinerary. I also asked that when it came
to DS, I would appreciate it if they would sit when holding DS.
He is 4 months old and over 17 lbs. I didn't want anyone getting
hurt (my mom sprained her back a month ago carrying DS). MIL responded
back to EVERYONE in the family, including DH's aunt, telling me
that: 1) I should not BCC people, because she couldn't see who
was getting the email. 2) I need to include everyone in all my
emails to the family. 3) I should tell the whole story about why
I am not seeing the aunt and that I started the email war by sending
her a nasty email. I didn't, but that's not what she thinks. 4)
I should let people decide if they can handle walking around with
my DS. DH saw the email and told me to ignore her, send emails
the way I want, take DS back from those who don't want to sit with
him, and leave if his aunt shows up while I am visiting. If anyone
is mad and contacts him, he'll deal with them. I love The Man!
Signed - I Don't Give
A Rat's Butt What MIL Thinks. I'll Do As I Please!
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