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I hate to sound like I'm complaining or looking for attention.  It's just that after all these years, I am worn thin, very thin.  The hurt never ends when it comes to the way my MIL treats us (mainly the kids and me).  Sarcasm, criticism, rude behavior, and being downright mean happen to be her middle name!  How can this hard woman have raised a good son?  I have never met anyone so stubborn and heartless.  When she walks past, I can see my breath.  Honestly, it's hard to believe she raised a large family.  I come from one too, but my parents showed love and affection.  They didn't belittle us every chance they got.  She's an odd one.  She never accepted our kids or me.  We live minutes apart, yet we are strangers.  She would never baby-sit or stop by.  There is NO bond between her and our kids or me.  GMs like to teach, hug, and spoil kids - not this lady.  Now, there are OTHER grandkids whom she can't get enough of.  They get all the attention, while ours sit quietly, feeling awkward.  They are now grown and roll their eyes over it, but I know it hurts.  They didn't get any warmth from either GM or GP.  Where were the kisses?  The kind words?  The stories?  The songs?  Where was the support when school functions came around?  No Christmas plays, dance recitals, volleyball or football.  Where were the sleepovers?  She was not interested.  Can a woman really be this hard?  I say "woman", because GP is just grouchy and doesn't talk.  She runs the show.  How can she love some of the kids, but not all of the kids?  Really, it's beyond me.  Thanks for listening.

        Signed - I Am Worn Thin, Very Thin
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My MIL was upset to see her son move in with me while I was pregnant with our first child.  She was also pregnant at the same time I was.  She was upset to hear that my son crawled before her son.  She's so competitive with our child.  She didn't like me at first, because I am a different race than she is.  DF doesn't stand up to her.  She messed up DS's first birthday party.  She gets on my nerves, but I can never tell her that.  She never bought my son anything.  My side of the family are the only people who care.

        Signed - She's So Competitive
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