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When I was planning our wedding, FMIL insisted on paying for the band (they sucked, BTW).  I had agreed to it because I wanted to our relationship to have a good start.  I was told that the fee was $500, which I thought reasonable, even though they did NOT want to play my request, since MIL had already made requests.  After the wedding, MIL made it known that she had paid the band $1000.  Later on, she guilted my DH that she had no more money because she paid an extra $500.  So, we reimbursed her the $500.  After many months, I came to find out that MIL said the same thing to her other son.  MIL had gotten her $1000 back, $500 from each son.  Then, she had the nerve to tell everyone that she had paid for the band.

        Signed - MIL Is Not My Friend
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I have so much to say about my MIL.  First, I'll give you the background.  Second, I'll give you my current issue with her.  When DH and I first started dating, MIL was fine.  It was probably because she didn't see me as a threat.  But, the second we got engaged, she went off the deep end.  Nothing I did was right, and everything I wanted for our wedding was either too extravagant or expensive in her book.  Keep in mind, she is probably the cheapest person I have ever met.  She actually offered to buy my jewelry for the wedding, but then tried to convince me to make it instead.  She would buy the supplies from an arts and crafts store, as long as she had a coupon.  Anyway, the week before our wedding, she was the worst I had seen her.  She was pretty much drunk the whole week, because the thought of losing her son was too unbearable, I guess, and she tried to get me to change EVERYTHING at the last minute.  My rehearsal dinner was already set to be at a nice restaurant.  She practically threw a temper-tantrum at the last minute, saying that she wanted it at her house instead, in the back yard - in November.  She also had the nerve to ask my DH if, before I walked down the aisle, he could walk her down the aisle first!!  This way, everyone would know that she was the first woman in his life!  Then, when he said, "No," she asked my wedding planner, at the rehearsal, to make it happen anyway!  Of course, my planner, said, "No."  So I could tell that she was furious about it that night at the rehearsal dinner.  Once everyone had eaten and speeches had been given, she proceeded to stand on a chair and introduce everyone on her side of the family.  She made a big deal about all that they had done for us throughout the wedding, pretty much making it sound as if my family did nothing.  HELLO, my family actually paid for everything.  But, you didn't see them announcing it to the world.  Keep in mind, she was crying the whole time.  Here comes the best part:  She proceeded to tell this story in front of 50 people (I will try to quote her the best I can).  "So, when my son was about 3 years old, he walked into the room with his pants around his ankles.  You know, exploring himself.  He said, 'Look momma, it grows!'  So, here's to you son.  Now you can let it grow.  Let it grow.  Let it grow!!!"  Everyone was either laughing awkwardly, or sitting with their heads in their hands.  We were just mortified!  I thought it would be much better once we got married, but she called us every day while we were on our honeymoon.   She constantly tries to have control.  She even tried to get my DH to come over on Christmas morning to be with his sister, so she wouldn't be miserable on their first Christmas apart.  I mean, come on!!  She is 18.  She'll be fine!  This brings me to my current issue.  We all know that she is crazy.  But, what makes her even more crazy is that she has all these weird beliefs in medicine and doctors.  Personally, if a doctor tells me that something is wrong and that he can fix it, then I let him!  A few months ago, I found out I had an ovarian cyst and that it needed to come out.  I was told that it's pretty common, and I went in and had it removed.  Now I'm all better.  He said that my birth control will help to keep any future ones from developing.  Now, all of a sudden, I have all these alternative medicine doctors filling up my voicemail, saying that I have been referred by my MIL!  Last week, we were at a Christmas party at her house.  In front of 40 people, she said, as loudly as possible, "You should really get off that birth control if you ever want to have kids.  Can't (DH's name) just use a rubber?  My Dr. friend said that the reason you got that cyst was because your body is too acidic, and if you just drink this [special] water, you could prevent cancer down the road.  Also, sin is the biggest cause of growths in the body."  Ugh, I just want her to go away.

        Signed - At A Loss
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