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Worst gift:  My MIL loves to shop.  Over the years, she has enjoyed lavishing copious and expensive gifts on her own DDs and her other (now ex-) DIL.  At Christmas, the other "girls" in the family would be asked for detailed Christmas lists, and she would take them shopping in December so they could try on clothes and pick out things they would like.  These courtesies were never extended to me.  For the 34 years I've been married to her son, the gifts I've received have included chipped china, granny panties, used junk, broken clocks, items that were included as free premiums for some other purchase she had made, and so on.  One year, she didn't give me anything for Christmas, but the next year I received a calendar for the year that had just passed.  It was obvious that this had been the missing gift from the previous year.  This Christmas, I received a hideous, off-white acrylic cowl neck sweater, size small (I'm especially well endowed on top - natural attributes, which her 81 year old DH never fails to admire), with the sale tag from the discount retailer still attached.  I know that I unintentionally ticked her off this week when I was trying to compliment her.  She related a story about how someone at the bank and someone at her doctor's office had expressed surprise that she was 81, because she certainly looked at least 10 years younger.  I said something like, "You have such a great wardrobe, too," but she took umbrage because I didn't say she looked 71.  For the record, she looks like the last surviving Civil War widow, and doesn't seem to realize that she has gnarly hair sprouting from her many facial moles, which does serve to distract you from the mustache.  I wanted her approval and affection for so many years and didn't get it.  But, I will say that she has been a great teacher.  Consequently, I have a close and real relationship with my own DIL, who knows that I am far from perfect.  But, she also has no doubt that I value her and love her very much.

        Signed - Breaking The Cycle
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Worst gift:  Every year I try to hint about suitable Christmas presents for my two teenage children, as they would really appreciate either vouchers or money.  Each year I am sure that the family buys presents through the TV shopping channels.  DS was given a pink plastic mp3 player (said thanks, whilst playing with his new ipod touch).  Two years ago he was given a desk pen stand with revolving globe of the world.  DH is usually given outdated, stripey jumpers.  It is impossible to know which shop to return them to.  I normally receive items such as plastic jewelry or a plastic handbag.  Each year, the whole family makes a big deal of saying thanks to MIL.  When she opens my presents, she gets the gift receipts, which she can use to easily exchange unwanted items.  I do feel sorry for the kids, who are really disappointed.  I donate the presents to charity after a few months.  I really wish she would stop spending her money.  Something like a tin of biscuits or chocolates would be fine.

        Signed - I Really Wish She Would Stop
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