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This is a bit different coming from a man, but my ILs are just plain heartless.  VERY recently, my wife was rushed to hospital via ambulance (sirens and lights) because of a suspected heart attack.  Luckily, it turned out to be a cardiac infection.  Regardless, she was in immense pain and suffering, not to mention terrified.  It took the hospital a long time to calm her down and get her pulse rate back to normal.  When she was discharged from the hospital and I got her home, she got a phone call from her sister (my SIL) verbally BERATING her for being admitted to the hospital!  SIL had announced her first pregnancy only a few days beforehand, and had gotten it into her head that my wife had "made up" this infection in order to get attention away from her.  She told DW that she should apologize and told her, "Get over yourself'".  I told DW that she should just not call her sister until she got an apology for that horrible incident, which she did.  Her sister emailed her later on to say that she couldn't apologize because of "hormones", and that DW should still just "get over it".  At the bottom of the email was the "Mandatory Gift List" for the new baby, and a note stating that DW HAD to buy some of the more expensive stuff because of all this "attention seeking" by getting ill.  DW also has rheumatoid arthritis and suffers horribly from that as well.  It makes me FURIOUS that her sister seems to think that all of this is "made up" to take attention away from her and her baby!  I wish I knew how to get it through this woman's head that what she is saying is just plain evil.

        Signed - Husband To An Ill Wife
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Worst gift:  My MIL is notorious for bad gifts - to me.  Her gifts to others still reflect bad taste, but the ones I receive are far worse.  This year, for Christmas, I wasn't able to travel home due to finances.  I still supported my DH in going, since I think it's important to see family, and I value that highly.  My family understands that we are having financial difficulties and did not supply the guilt trip that my MIL provided.  So, DH traveled home on the 26th, and was there for MIL's birthday and the New Year.  Nice, right!  He came home with my wrapped present.  It was a used and STAINED Christmas dish towel.  She has sent me used bath towels in the past.  They were ragged, with threads coming undone.  But, at least they were not stained!  Last year, I got a used sweater, in the wrong size.  It stunk of cigarettes (I have asthma and am highly sensitive to cigarettes; she is a nurse, and she knows of my asthma and its intensity).  Don't get me wrong, I love garage sales and thrift stores.  You can find great things (including gifts) there.  So, it's not as if I am a snob who expects gifts of a certain price range.  I just prefer that it not cause me medical discomfort or be so obviously unwanted by ANYONE.  I know for a fact that she would not have a stained snowman dish towel in her possession.

        Signed - All Toweled Out
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