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My DH was building something for my dad for Father's Day when he severely cut 3 of his fingers (almost completely off) on his table saw.  After my dad called me to tell me of the accident, I rushed to the hospital.  After seeing that he was going to be all right (docs said they could save his fingers), I called his family to tell them what had happened.  My MIL rushed to the hospital as they were wheeling my DH to his room (he had to stay the night).  By this time, it was about 9:00 at night and my DH and I were discussing what I should do (whether I should go home and get my DS, who was only a couple of months old and still nursing, and bring him back, or if I should just go home to stay, and come back early in the morning to pick him up).  My MIL cut in ON the conversation, saying, "Go home. I'm staying the night with him.  Go feed your baby."  This she proclaimed without consulting me or my DH.  But, it helped me out of a jam with what to do with my DS.  We both let it slide.  She ended up bringing my DH home in the morning, when he was discharged.  My DH came into the house, still kinda out of it from the meds.  He sat in his chair and zoned in and out.  His mother started saying how she'd help him with anything he needed, since he only had one hand to work with.  All the while, she went on and on.  I'm thinking, "I'm his wife.  I can help him with anything he needs."  Then, she said, "If you need help showering, let me know and I'll come over and help you."  At this point, I looked at my DH, wondering if I had just heard what I thought I'd heard.  He replied, "No thanks.  I think my wife can take care of that."

        Signed - GROSS!
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My older DD just turned 5, and the baby is 9 months old.  MIL tries to override everything I say.  I said that DD had to eat dinner before she could have candy, and MIL said, "Just let her have it.  It will not hurt her."  DD threw a huge tantrum and I gave in because MIL would not leave until her "baby" was happy.  She then proceeded to tell me not to be so hard on DD, and not tell her daddy when she is being bad.  I should just lie, if he asks.  DH was livid when he came home from work.  He called and yelled at her for a good 20 minutes.  She still crosses the line on occasion.  DD had to get a flu shot the other day, along with her other vaccinations.  MIL found out, and this is what she said, "But, I didn't want her to get the H1N1 shot."  It's always about her!  She spoils my DD to the point where my child cries about everything to get her way, and threatens to tell grandma!  The woman had 4 boys, and the older two are just worthless because she gave them their way in everything.  The oldest is nearly 30 (no job, home, or anything).  The other is living at grandma's, without a job or anything.  DH and his twin are the ones with places to live, jobs and lives (which MIL interferes with constantly).  My DH's twin has a DF, and she avoids MIL like the plague.  Yet, MIL loves her to death.  She always talks about her and the upcoming wedding (she tried to talk DH out of marrying me and did not attend our wedding).  Better FSIL than me!  Is it wrong to pray that FSIL will get pregnant, so MIL will go bug her!  LOL.  The latest incident is my DD's schooling.  MIL offered to pay for it, $31 a week for preschool.  Sure, MIL, you can pay for it.  DH called for the money for the last week of the month.  Nope, she said that she "cannot pay everyone's bills".  Really?  She could have just said, "I can't afford it this week."  We have never asked her to pay our bills.  She offered to pay for the school, if we enrolled DD.  So, we decided that we would pay for it ourselves and not involve her in any way!

        Signed - Stop Interfering, Witch!!!
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