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frequent fry her - Outsider DIL Frequent Fry Her TM. - The Outsider DIL, 2 of 4 needed/Posted: 20-JAN-10
SIL is having a baby in a few months.  She has already had 2 showers that were fairly good in size, and is about to have 2 if not 3 (or 4 - they keep being planned, it seems) more of the same size.  I made her a good sized diaper cake, complete with items inside of it - the whole nine yards.  My new DH and I are currently out of work and we have to live with DH's parents.  That aside, MIL and FIL act like she is the first person in the course of human events to be pregnant.  When I was pregnant with both of my children, they pretty much ignored me.  I had significant complications with my pregnancies.  SIL has had no complications other than a tiny spot of bleeding once.  I had a large baby, and her baby is a normal size.  I am not, by any means, wishing complications on her, nor am I jealous.  I just don't understand how the same person can be so hyperfocused on SIL's pregnancy and completely ignore my pregnancies.  Tonight, MIL told to me that I needed to buy another gift for yet another shower for SIL.  I have been invited to one this Friday and another one for SIL after that.  There is talk of yet another one.  I told MIL that DH and I are broke.  We are both trying to find jobs, with no success.  We couldn't afford to buy another gift for SIL (not to be selfish, but our DS needs food and diapers, too).  SIL and BIL are also better off than us at the moment.  They have a house and 2 cars, and both have great jobs with great insurance and benefits.  Is it rude of them to keep requiring us to get them gifts for every one of these showers?

        Signed - I Just Don't Understand
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frequent fry her - madashell Frequent Fry Her TM. - madashell/Posted: 20-JAN-10
DH just received the latest crazy "gift" from his mom.  It was a winter hat along with a letter explaining that she had knitted it herself and was thinking about him all the time as she made it.  Apparently, she knitted it with lots of love.  She hopes he'll wear it and think of her and how much she loves him, and how much he means to her.  She wishes he'd visit more blah, blah, blah, etc., etc., etc.  It's a shame that she forgot to cut out the "Made in China" label inside the hat.

        Signed - Sigh
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