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My ILs own a little cabin on a lake, and they like to go there on weekends, when the weather is nice.  By little, I mean one room, in the absolute middle of nowhere, complete with snakes, mice, crickets and poison ivy - the works.  I like nature, but that's a bit much for me.  They seem to think that we have nothing better to do than drive hours to spend time there with them.  It is so stressful.  They, FIL and MIL, don't get along with each other, so I have to wonder why they insist on going anywhere together in the first place.  My DD is very young, and I can think of many things to do besides sit in a stifling cabin, trying to act cheerful about the whole situation.  Yes, I could take her outside, and I do, but there's nowhere to go, and I don't feel like digging gravel and bugs out of her mouth and chasing after her continually.  Maybe I should be grateful or something, you know, because they invite us and all.  I just really hate it.  Lately, I've been telling DH to go without me, but he feels awkward, and it makes it seem like I'm keeping him from going.  Also, I insist that DD wear a life jacket when she's outside.  The hill the cabin is on is very steep, and it goes right down to the lake.  And, no one watches her except for me.  They always promise to help with the baby when they call, but they never do.  So, they're upset about the life jacket issue, and think it would be no big deal for her to go in the lake without one, despite her not knowing how to swim.  They're crazy.  What really bugged me, last time I went, was when they took a boat out to go around the lake, and left me in the unairconditioned cabin, saying, "Oh, well, you have the baby, so I guess you can't come."  Thanks a lot.

        Signed - Rather Stay Home And Mow My Lawn
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Worst gift:  My MIL has very little to do.  She lives with my FIL in a small condo, has no job, no hobbies, no clubs, no classes, etc.  She rarely even visits us.  I, on the other hand, am very busy with preschoolers at home all day, and I have older children.  Yet, every year, instead of going to the trouble of buying her grandchildren gifts, she sends me a check and expects me to do her shopping for her.  I am grateful for the check, but it does bug me that she gives me more work every birthday and Christmas.

        Signed - Busy Mom
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