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Mother-In-Law Mall
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Mother-In-Law Stories
February 10, 2010
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I have finally found true
love, after a horrible first marriage, and caring for my 2 children
on my own. I am a university and college graduate, and make a comfortable
living. However, my new MIL has made it clear to the family that
I am taking advantage of her son. She even went so far as to say
that she bought our house, and she stormed out of my child's 5th
birthday party because his father was present. She brings people
over unannounced to show them the house that she gave her son.
Her DD called and said that I need to respect my MIL, because she
bought our house, and that I am using her brother. MIL is an alcoholic
cougar who will use men for their money. I am self-sufficient and
loving to my children.
Signed - MIL Is An Alcoholic
Cougar
( responses to this story )
( here is my story )
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Frequent
Fry Her TM.
- The Outsider DIL/Posted: 10-FEB-10
I told DH that I was tired of his mother using
him. Tonight, my MIL called DH (after calling him several times
today and spending all day with him) to ask him to come down and
get his nephew to quit crying. I had a problem with this, as his
mother always does this. Not to mention that when she is with our
child, if she cannot get him to stop crying, we get called home
immediately from wherever we are (even if it has only been about
30 minutes since we left). However, with BIL and SIL's child, she
makes my DH come down and take care of him. She has FIL with her,
so she is not alone. She never makes BIL/SIL come home because
their child is crying. Today, BIL, SIL, MIL, FIL, and my DH went
to an event, and left me at home with DS. BIL and SIL dragged our
poor nephew around all day, so he didn't get a nap, and was over-tired
by the time they left him with the ILs. BIL's and SIL's should
have to deal with the consequences and come home, like we did.
It should not be a totally different standard. This is just one
example of how MIL uses my DH. I am 20 weeks pregnant and have
been furiously looking for a job for nearly 2 years. DH is unemployed,
as MIL had him taking care of his GM, while she and FIL stayed gone,
either hanging out with BIL and SIL, or just gone. His GM passed
away last fall, and then his mother started trying to get him to
be BIL and SIL's child's 24/7 free on demand childcare service.
I straight out told them, "NO WAY." MIL also acts like
my DH is her spouse. She has never really acknowledged me as his
wife, and acts like I am not my child's parent. She completely
ignores my pregnancy. While I have some things for DD, there are
some things that I don't know if I will be able to get, due to our
financial situation. But, it seems that DH can get all the money
he wants from MIL to support his smoking habit, and whatever else
he wants to do. MIL also acts like I am the most worthless person
she has ever met, and that nothing I ever do is right. MIL is also
a pathological liar, and doesn't like me around because I see through
her lies. MIL lied to DH about some really big things. She lied
to him about a house, that she bought with his trust fund, getting
foreclosed on. She even lied to FIL. DH never made solid boundaries
with her, and always allowed her to overstep her bounds, especially
in regards to our relationship. He once bought me some lingerie
on his debit card, and his mother traced the purchase and saw the
lingerie that he bought for me to wear. I was mortified, as well
as embarrassed. Tonight, when he got home from going down to MIL's
to take care of BIL and SIL's child, I told him that I thought it
was messed up that we always had to come home, and yet BIL and SIL
never have to. And, I said that I am annoyed that they always will
watch BIL and SIL's child, but will never watch our child, especially
if it means that I might get the chance to interact with other adults.
I also told him that I am sick of him running whenever she calls
him. BTW, MIL gets annoyed if I answer the house phone instead
of my DH. I said that it (along with the constant criticism and
abuse) needed to stop. He told me to, "Go to hell," and
called me a stupid b!tch. Then, he walked out the door, stating
that he was going and not coming back this time. He just now showed
up here at the house, at 12:30 am. Am I wrong for wanting this
to end? Dealing with his mother has given me anxiety issues (that
I never had prior to dealing with her), and is destroying our marriage,
as . . .
Signed - I Never Know
When He Is Going To Desert Me For Her
( responses to this story )
( here is my story )
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I want my own
Frequent Fry Her TM
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