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Not sure what the crazy MIL is up to now, but today she decided to stop at our house and take pictures of our home.  I looked up to see a strange van pull up into our driveway.  I simply stood at the door and saw MIL sitting in her van, (which, BTW, is JUST LIKE MINE!), with a camera in one hand and her cell phone in the other.  I'm not entirely sure what it was that she was taking pictures of or why.  I mean, there is snow covering everything, so maybe she wanted some scenic pictures?  I told DH, when he got home, and all he could say was, "B**** is nuts."

        Signed - Maybe Some Scenic Pictures?
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I have written about my MIL before - no real complaints, as she is very kind to me, and had always treated me well.  But, from time to time, I just have to vent about her, so here goes.

I've been feeling very sorry for MIL lately, because, toward the end of last Summer, she started having lots of eye problems.  She's had a couple of very touchy surgeries, and has been nearly blind, for a few weeks, while waiting to heal.  This has been very difficult for her, as she lives alone, and is used to being very busy and independent.

MIL never lets you get a word in edgewise, and that would have to be the one big complaint I have.  Now that she wants (gets) to tell DH and me all about how horrible she feels, it has gotten worse.  She has told me, at least four times, that BIL and SIL got her a large clock, with numbers that she can read, so she can, at least, tell time.  They also programmed her phone with all the family numbers in the quick dial mode, because she cannot see the phone pad.  So, the last time she called, she was going on for several minutes about how difficult life is now.  It's pretty much the same thing she says every time.  I just listen patiently, because I know she will never change, and I know it makes her feel good to just talk it out.  Then, out of nowhere, she paused (!!) and asked me how my job was going.  I said, "Oh, well it ..." and off she went AGAIN about BIL and SIL buying her a clock with the large numbers, and how they set up her phone.  All I can do is take a deep breath and let her go on.  Really, she will say the same exact thing, on the same call, two or three times.  DH can't stand it.  That's why she'd rather talk to me.  He gets sick of it real fast and yells at her, "Mom ... MOM!!  I don't CARE!!  MOM!!  STOP!!  You TOLD me already!"  Then, they start bickering, and I leave the room.  It's amazing that she knows anything about me at all, since I have never completed a sentence in the 22 years I've known her.  The main thing I wish she would stop doing is telling me not to quit my job.  I don't know why she thinks I would.  I don't always like my job, but it's usually fine, and I'm very thankful to have it.  If I have a chance to vent a bit about my job, she almost yells, "Oh - don't quit!  Don't leave your job!  What will you do without a job?!  Be thankful!"  I guess it's fine for HER to vent about things, but not me?  Well, that's about it.  It really isn't all that bad - just frustrating at times.  And, we live all the way on the other side of the country from her, so we have a nice buffer.  I just wish she and DH wouldn't bicker all the time.  It makes me crazy!  But I am ...

        Signed - Patient ... Always Patient!
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